Social Pancake – Blooming for Success

Magic Nuggets
D
Streetwisekeen
Rince
Maui
SirSlick

So me and cougar texted each other and we agreed that I would come over at the end of the night, I would leave around 1. But before that I would have fun and sarge with my buddies! We head over at the club and we are there early. We try to get in state by dancing and humping on the patio by ourselves. We have footage of this and I will post it online as soon as possible! It’s money!

I warm up so I open some UGs. They are always great for warm up and to try out new material, so I did the Q-test. It’s a routine where you ask everyone in set to draw an imaginary capital Q with their dominant hand on their forehead. If I look at their face and I can see the letter Q, then they drew it so that others can read it, which means they care what others think of them. If not, they don’t care what other people think of them. That’s the routine in short, obviously I have a very broad cold read for this, which I calibrate depending on the girl(s).

Then I see one of our pivots, she is lesbian, in the venue and greet her. She is one of the hottest girls in the club and we go dance with her. Her social proof is through the roof and every girl she dances with is done with ease. We dance together and then I pull some girl towards me with ease too, it’s almost too easy now. It let the pivot do her own thing and I run some more sets.

Rince is on his 100 sets/day mission (only that day!) and he wants the 100th set to be filmed. I grab my camera and start filming when he opens this 2-set. We have good footage of this from upclose, the girls knew they were being filmed but we kept their attention so they forgot about it. I come in to wing Rince and take the obstacle, which imho was the hotter of the two :P My game was really sloppy at that moment; hardly any kino, a lot of fluff talk and vibing, and barely any qualifications. Out of every corner I see guys coming closer to our set almost surrounding me, Rince and the two girls. D comes in and warns me, “You are about the get AMOG’d”. With that in mind, this guy next to us starts talking to Rince’s target but he keeps her attention. The AMOG starts to call the girl a bitch when she doesn’t want to talk to him (good for us) and we move the set to the other side of the patio.

I lead my girl by holding her hand and I test for compliance by squeezing her hand, but she doesn’t squeeze back. This compliance test is, in my experience, very reliable so I was thinking what to do next. I wanted her, but at the same time I’m winging Rince so I didn’t want to screw this up. I played it safe. We vibe some more and I calm her down when she freaks out when she found out what the AMOG said about her friend. At this point, another friend comes in and I already knew him so he wasn’t blocking me. I befriend him and keep running the set. Then I start qualifying and I seed the karaoke. I #close and timebridge for next week to have some duet with her.

I run some more sets but I get blown out. Normally I always try to stay in set and 1) plow 2) let them leave me. But Saturday I didn’t really plow, I would just open the adjacent set and keep being in set. Also, I noticed I’m more strategic now when it comes going after certain sets. If I see a set that I really want to open, but they are far away, I start opening sets that are in range. Sometimes I would jump from set to set and that way work my way close to the set I really want. The way I do that is I run some opionion opener, always body rocking, and after their response open the adjacent set. This is social proofing myself and by the time I open the set I want, it flies open. I’ve made it work several times for me, but also a lot of times the set I’m interested in is either taken by someone else of my crew or they’re gone. So the is dilemma of social proofing and then opening, or just opening and work my way up from there. On our last conference call with the crew, we had a discussion about this. I’m still sticking to my social proof approach :P If the set is gone, well hey, there is always another one. Abundance mentality!

I tell D to go into this 2-set where he kissed the girl a few weeks back, and did some text game with. I would wing him. I run some quick set before I wing him and take the obstacle. I try to get her all over me, but somehow I just couldn’t win her over. My game was still sloppy that night. When I realized that I couldn’t win her over, I disqualified myself even more by saying I was gay. Then I neg her by saying that she looked lesbian that all girls would be all over her. Haha, she became self-conscious from that moment. So I told her that we would go boy hunting; I would find her a guy and then she would find me a guy. Of course I would use this to my advantage: I would use her as my pivot for mixed sets and I would isolate D with her girl. I didn’t see any sets within reach that I was interested in so I switched gears, “We’re gonna find you a guy that will buy you a drink…” So I open this guy, tell him she said that he was cute, and they wander off to the bar. NICE! I can go inside and do some dancefloor game and D is isolated (he told me later he got a BJ in her car).

The night was almost over so I head over to the cougar’s place. We had great sex, made her cum twice, and she swallowed. I slept over and left the next morning all worn out.

My night was overall pretty sloppy. Maybe it was because I knew that I would get some ass later from the cougar, so there ‘was less pressure’. Or it was just an off night, whatever. I was still productive in terms of winging other people, so it’s cool.

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FR

Magic Nuggets
Streetwisekeen
D
Maui
Rince
SirSlick

We got some great infield footage, probably more than 30min, with me and Rince running a set. I hope I can post them as soon as possible. Also, I want remind you all that I’m still on my ‘friendzone’ mission. Every set that I #close, I going to make them my friends. I want to build a social circle and entourage so that I can roll into a club with 10+ girls in the near future. There are exceptions of course, but these will always be highlighted (like the cougar).

Overall, this night was really good for me. I run my sets really well, I control the interactions, pass every congruence test, and closed the sets I wanted.

Me and the cougar of my last 2 field reports were going to meet again at the same club where we met each other. Again I wanted to experiment with jealousy plotlines, because the last time wasn’t that effective. I wanted to be ABS, always be in set. I run really good sets that night and the cougar got jealous.

SS: Hey babe, good to see you again.
Cougar: Why are you talking to all those girls?
SS: Awwww, my little girl is jealous…..
Cougar: Maybe…. they were touching you!

She was really jealous and sometimes she hijacked me out of a set, because the girl I was talking to wasn’t cute enough according to her. Haha. We makeout a few time and she wants me to pull her that night. I can’t due to logistics so we setup that we would see each other the next day.

Enough cougar talk! Time to deconstruct some sets. What I’ve been focussing lately is to use my BL to do the gaming. Rather than letting the verbals run my game, I wanted to spark attraction with my BL. Also, what I remember from the Superconference openening exercises was that when I opened sets, my body always faced the set. That shows too much interest right of the bat when you go indirect. Also, from my last FR “Keep Flying” I got some good feedback on my BL from the infield footage.

So I open this 2-set, sisters from Fuji, and right away they showed way too much interest in me. So I calibrate my BL, lockin, and let them right away qualify them to me. Usually I run sets with a wing, but lately I try to run more sets by myself so I can figure out how to close those sets and keep their attention. I #close them for karaoke next week.

Then I open this 4-set (ffff) and they immediatly want to blow me out.
SS: [indirect opener]
CB: We’re lesbians, so we’re not interested.
SS: Awww how cute, so who is the dominant one?

I keep negging to setup the right frame. My BL always showed that I’m about to leave, I bodyrock like a wildman and never faced the set with my body untill I hooked. I cold read all of them (”you’re the mom of the group, you pickup the boys, etc”) Few seconds later I crack the set and they don’t want me to leave. My frame control was really good and story telling went awesome.
SS: [while telling story]
Hb1: [talking to sister]
SS: Ssshhhh, daddy’s talking.
4-set: [giggles]
SS: [continue story]

That line is money when executed at the right time and with the right authority. Then I wing Streetwisekeen in his 2-set and right away I didn’t know who the target was. So I was getting the wrong girl, spiking her BT, but SWK eventually told I got the wrong girl! So we switch and I try to get the obstacle to leave SWK’s target, but she just wouldn’t let go. We should have rotated the girls so their backs faced each other to get mini isolation. We debriefed about this so for next time we know what to do.

I wing Maui in this 2-set and asks him who the trouble maker is (who is the target), but he says there isn’t any, meaning he has no target and just wants to pawn them for social proof and pivot. So I find out who is most into Maui and I take the other girl. The asian was into Maui and I take the Mexican. I run my stack on her and put out a sexual frame. She eats it and we do the almost kiss. I spike her BT by heavy kino, like tilting her and spinning her around. I find out that she has a kid and that immediatly broke the deal for me. She was like 20 something, not hot…

Conclusion
Now that my game is better than it was 2 months ago, I try to setup standards for myself. I don’t want to game girls anymore when I’m REALLY not interested in them, unless I’m winging. To me it’s just a waste of time, especially when it’s a target rich night. Sure, I can run many more sets but I want to start running sets where I’m truely interested in the girl(s). If I’m not interested in them, I use them for social proof and merging sets. Something I still need to work on, merging sets and then that way extracting the target. It’s pretty difficult for now, but I hope to crack that pretty soon. Overall, great night and good winging.

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FR

Time to lay: approx. 8 hours
After one month of keyboard jockeying, and three months of sarging, I finally got my first lay since I joined the community! Woohoo!

I met this woman at a club two weeks back, you can read about her in my 2 field reports “Blue Balls Hurt” and “Keep Flying”. To be short, she is 12 years older than me and she thought I was 21 (I’m not). I did some text and phone game with her to build a lot of comfort with her. However, it took me a lot of work and effort to get this lay. I hope something like this never happens again!

LAY REPORT
She texted me on the 25th around 9PM asking me when I could come over. Two hours later I called her, ran some more comfort stories, and then I told her I would come over the next night and that she would cook for me. She agreed, great! Just me and her that night, I must pull….

I arrive at her place around 8. She explicitly told me not to come earlier because she has to put her kid in bed, and she didn’t want the kid to see me. I understand. I get there, with my box of chocolate, and I’m really surprised…. I see two of her friends at her place. I thought it was just going to be the two of us! That immediatly broke my state.

I walk into her place and her friend immediatly asked me for my ID.
HbFriend: Lemme see your ID.
SS: Huh? You want to see my ID?
HbFriend: Yeah, lemme see your ID.
SS: Okay, here you go.

That even broke more state more, if that was even possible! They thought I was 21, I always dodged and reframed the age queston, but somehow still wanted verification. I found out later that they checked my Facebook profile, where I don’t reveal my age, and they checked all my party pictures and noticed I was not wearing a wristband. That’s some serious CSI shit right there!

At this point, I’m thinking: “I thought I was gonna get laid tonight, but I guess not. I need to get out of here.”

We all had dinner together, and my AFC-self rose above. I was quiet and there were some awkward silences when we ate. Everytime the music stopped, Cougar immediatly payed attention to it. Cougar and her friends were also shitting me the whole time, I couldn’t take it. They were making remarks about “Ooohh I never lie”, “Yeah you can’t do that, you’re too young” and things like that. It really affected me and I wanted to get out of there, nothing was going to happen that night.

After diner, we went outside for a smoke and there were even more silences. We could hear the crickets once a while and I didn’t position myself next to Cougar at all. I wasn’t feeling it and she could obviously see that. We go back in and watch a movie. I sit next to cougar, but like 1 foot apart from her with my body language closed off towards her; my legs crossed away from her, intensely watching TV, ignore her when she looks over, and my hands in front me. Then she starts to lean against me with her head and I reward her by grabbing her arm and stroking her forearms.

Out of nowhere, she starts to breath heavy. Like, I never saw that before. She was getting turned on when I was stroking her forearms. It was a great realization at that moment. Then I withdrew my hand and threw her hand away, consciously.
Cougar: Why……!
SS: [pretending to look surprised] What?
Cougar: I want to be touched.
[grab her arm again]
(A lot female psychology in the works here, I love you Savoy)

I guess this was a reward-punish technique or kino push/pull and it worked. I never did something like this before, so I’m going to add this to my arsenal and field test it more. So at this point, “Hmm, maybe I can still pull it off.” We go outside again for a smoke and again her friend is shitting me with the whole age thing and lying. My state broke again. At this point, I’m saying that I’m about to leave. Cougar wanted me to stay for a bit longer and then I isolate her so I can have some real talk with her. If I would go without a lay, I might as well go out with a bang and pull out every trick out there to get some magic going on. I remember Niceguy of Casanova Crew and Anachronism (thanks buds) telling me to dismiss the whole age thing and make her feel comfortable around me.

SS: Look, I don’t care what others think of age differences. What matters is that I like you and you like me. We like being around each other and you feel the same way, right?
Cougar: Yeah, but you are just really to young for me, like….
SS: Hushhhhh, you talk to much. Come here.

I pull her face to me and we makeout. This was really balsy on my part, because I thought I could blow myself out with this move and I wasn’t feeling it that moment. But from that moment on, the momentum was on my side. I start running some same comfort stories (she has heard some of them before, but couldn’t remember them since she was drunk last time) and I start coming up with new ones on the fly. I connect with her on different levels and my attraction towards her grows even more. While talking, I keep stroking her forearms but also her inner thighs. I know the latter is a sensitive spot (look up Erogenous Zones for more info) but the forearms did their work too. She is getting aroused and this was for me the first time to see a woman getting aroused while not having sex yet. Eye opener for me, I love the erogenous zones now :) My state came back up, and I started being more dominant and aggressive. We kissed a lot and I start pulling her hair roots, sucking her neck, kissing and she breathes heavy again.

Cougar: I want to fuck you right now.
SS: Sko!

We go back in, I sit on the couch but she and her friend go back outside again for a little talk. Now that could have killed her state talking to her friend and I was afraid of that too. But then they came back in and started going upstairs. Both came back down and Cougar changed in her PJs and sat next to me on the couch.

Cougar: Lets go upstairs and lay down.
SS: Sko!
Cougar (to friends): We’re gonna lay down for a bit and I’m gonna show him my decorations.

Haha yeah right! So we went upstairs, no LMR, I’m giving her a lot of pleasure, she gave me 2 blowjobs, and I thrusted like a wildman. It was great.

After the sex, I debriefed with her and I found out a lot of cool stuff. Some questions I asked and her response.

SS: What did you think of me when you first met me, before I even talked to you?
Cougar: I thought you were sexy and confident.
SS: When did you know that we would have sex?
Cougar: I didn’t know, but I have thought about it a lot.

Also we were talking about ’sharing each other’, hinting towards a threesome. She told me once before at the club that she wanted a threesome, and I’m totally down for that! Maybe something for the next few times.

At this point, we were clear on our ‘relationship’ status. We’re just gonna be friends with benefits. Well, no one ever explicitly said that but we both assumed it. I made sure that she knew that I was going to be around so that she wouldn’t have any remorse the next day. We just texted each other and everything seems to be fine. Nice….

Credit
Some people definitly need some credit for my game so far. The Magic Nuggets crew definitly is a great group of people and support group. I love you guys! Robotlove, I love you too. You helped me so much with my daygame and especially phone game, I owe you one. Gvision, your game is so tight it’s sick, and you always have good advice. El Topo, your custom routine stack rocks and our talk on the phone helped a lot. I feel really good about gaming because I’m just showcasing my best self and that is what game is all about. Casanova Crew, you guys are awesome! Keep up the good work you guys are doing infield and on the boards. Also, I noticed that I understand women much better now and why routines work. Thanks to Savoy’s talk on female psychology I understand better what game really is and how women ‘work’. It definitly helped out my game.

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PUA

It feeeeels good, being back in the gym. I haven’t gone there for the last 3 months, due to some car problems and schedules. But I said to myself last week that today I would go back to the gym and get back in shape. I miss working out where I get that ‘high’ at the end of the workout. To boost my jumpstart again I setup a few sessions with a personal trainer to motivate me again and from there on I’ll workout again by myself and sometimes with my best friend.

Also, I want to start eating healthy again. I need to back eating my protein (150+ grams) and veggies! Hopefully I will get my work life back again, it has been slacking the last couple of months. I just got a new client so I need to get some work done. I miss the days when I exercised regularly and felt good and confident in my skin. Time to get that back, now with even better game than 3 months ago! I’m sooo money!

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Random

Since my encounter with HBcougar, I just cannot stop thinking of her. It feels like I’m getting one-itis again. Why? Well, to me the fact that I can hookup with a cougar just excites me, and the sexual chemistry we have is money. In the back of my mind I’m thinking that if I can be 1 on 1 with her, it’s gonna be a done deal and I’m going to fclose. Being in the community for four months now, being able to fclose would be a nice accomplishment.

I’m always the one in the Magic Nuggets telling everyone to have an abundance mentality, because I believed I had it ever since I got rid of my one-itis. But now I’m starting to doubt because I’m thinking of HBcougar once a while. I’m just excited to see her again and then 1on1 to get the deal sealed. I definitly don’t want a relationship with her, just a friend with benefits. Not even a f-buddy, simply because she lives far and she actually is a cool person to hangout with…..or am I just talking shit right now?

Anyway, I have several girls in my phone that I need to work on and I might have a date with a girl and her friend later this week. Lets get it on!

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PUA

This field report is nothing special and I’m writing this just so I can see what happened this weekend in my archive of field reports. I attached a video, you see Rince open a set and I wing him, to this FR so any feedback on subcommunications and body language would be appreciated.

Friday 3/21
In my FR “Blue Balls Hurt” I met this cougar, 32, who I had great sexual chemistry with and failed to pull a SNL. We texted back and forth during the week and I made her come to the same club again so we could meet up. This time, I wanted someone to occupy the obstacle who prevented me from pulling. So D would take on this job for the night. Well, he didn’t have to because I found out that she was rollin’ that night and she couldn’t handle it. Yeah, one obstacle less, but cougar came with 2 other female friends which had to be taken care of. Anyway, my plan was to ABS (always be in set) and whenever cougar would see me, I would be in set. I wanted to create a jealousy plotline and see how far I could take it. I was willing to lose her to experiment with this.

So yes, I was ABS and at the beginning I made sure she saw me in set by looking over at her group. STUPID. The obstacle glansed over and we had eye contact for a little bit, I got caught. I brushed it off and kept talking to this lonewolf. Sometimes I really underestimate how social savvy women are, they really are social intelligent. DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THAT! They see everything and have this built in radar for this shit. After I realized that, I stopped from looking over and just kept opening sets. She definitly saw me in a few sets and I hoped that made her jealous.

Then I see her group and walk over, greet her and try to win over her friends. We went to the dancefloor and I triangular gaze her, she is licking her lips so I mimic her. I went 90% and the she pulled out, “I can’t do this, you’re too young” and then I just left her on the dancefloor. Good idea? I think so, she wanted it but somehow her logic came in and pulled her out. So I just left hoping that she would feel this fear of loss. Turns out to be….

I reopen her later with some IOD and then I go in again for the kiss.

Cougar: If I was a few years younger, I would be all over you.
SS: Come here [pull her body against me]
Cougar: You’re too young, by at least 10 years
SS: Sssshhhh [put my index finger on her lips]
[makeout]

Everytime before we kissed me, she always reminded me that I’m too young for her. What’s the logic behind this? She wants plausable deniability? As if it just happened? I kept seeing this as a congruence test and I ignored the question and just kissed her. After several makeouts she stopped saying that and started sucking my neck again. I love that.

Once a while I would eject “to look out for my friends” and open some other sets. I didn’t want to be around her the whole night, I still wanted to practise. After some more sets, I came back and we sat down at a bench next to her friends. We kissed some more and then her hands went down in my pants. She grabbed my dick and started stroking, but my jeans were so tight that she couldn’t work it. At the same time, I put my hands on her pussy and start stroking it, not down her pants but just with her jeans on. This happened while everyone could see us with the lights above us. Oh well, it felt good.

She told me that I should drive her home tonight; I could have pulled that night. But there were some problems with this, logistically. Also, I drove Maui so I couldn’t leave him behind with no one to drive him home. Also, I wanted to play it safe. If I would drive her home, we had to walk 10 blocks first to get to my car and then driver another hour, at least, before we were at her place. In my mind, I don’t think I could have kept her BT that high for that long. I played it safe and made plans with her to see her the next day at her place.

Saturday 3/22
Me and cougar texted back and forth about setting up a dinner and movie at her place. Turned out, she was overworking and was too tired at the end of the day to do something. So I just texted her to relax and I would go out with my buddies. Then few minutes later she would back saying I should hang out with her at this lounge. Too bad, I already made new plans. Also, she thinks I’m 21 while I’m not. So she assumes that I can get into bars and stuff, while I can’t. Now this sucks when you lie about your age. I should told her I’m 20, what difference does one year make! No more lying about my age from now! Also when I tell her the truth right now, she will probably freak out. Hmmm, dilemma. I want to close her first and then tell her about it down the road. We’ll see.

With the cougar in my mind the whole day, I went out with my brain stuffed with scattered thoughts. I wasn’t really focused that night so my sets were so-so. I kept running sets and tried to do most of them without a wing, just to see how far I can get while I’m not feeling it. It actually went really well and I could handle 4+ sets really well for at least 10 minutes. I practiced a bit story telling, something I’m pulling off quite well I think. I try to talk emotionally more now instead of logic while at the same time talking slow. It’s lethal.

I did have one kiss with a girl who had a boyfriend for 6 years. I just kept push-pulling, false dq-ing myself and negging her in front of her friends. When I mini-isolated her I ran my stack and started grounding. I kino escalate and she reciprocates, so to me that was a good compliance test. We keep talking and she then mentions her bf, I ignore, and keep talking about myself. I love talking about myself, I’m so interesting :) Then I ran robotlove’s k-close routine.
[during comfort story]
SS: WHAT?! Are those eyelashes fake?
HB: No!
SS: Lemme see, close your eyes.
[makeout]

I ejected out of all sets that I ran without a wing just so I could open some more sets and practise my push-pulls, negs, and new kino routines. I could have #closed several sets and I should have just for the sake of closing. Especially since I never #close in front of groups, I always do it in isolation. I will have to do this next time in field and find out how this works out.

Oh yeah, I love my new Hello Kitty necklace. It’s money and I get opened with it a lot. You can see it here below. Also I’m winging Rince and I would love to receive some feedback on that.

Happy Easter.

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FR

OOOooohh man, I almost had my first SNL. It was on and we both agreed that we would fuck each others brain till it hurt. This woman who is 12 years my elder was all over me and I loved it. Too bad her friend….man my balls still hurt.

Magic Nuggets
Maui
Rince
Streetwisekeen
SirSlick
Deelucks

Casanova
Niceguy
Yenwen
Jackett
King Kong
Status66

We get on the patio and we shoot the shit for a bit. I see this 2set 20ft away from me and I lock eyes with one woman. I can tell she is not my age so I don’t bother to walk over to open that set. Then they walk over and stand behind me (proximity). Hmmm, they wanted to be approached….FINE!

SS: Wooohooo, guys, real quick…how gay do I look tonight?
HbBlonde: You look metro, not gay.
HbCareer: Yeah you look fine.
SS: Thanks. This guy came up to me and said I was cute, so I said thanks dude, and….he grabbed my ass! Then winked at me and I was like….WTF?!
Set: [laughs]
SS: I have to get outta here, but do you always wear that ring on that finger? [at HbBlonde]
The ring routine follows.

At this point I decide that HbCareer is my target. She is actually better looking than I thought when we locked eyes from a distant. Kong comes in (he would be my main wing for the night) and he occupies the blonde girl.

My main goal for the night was to false DQ myself and have some push/pulls in set. I never do them. I never false DQ myself because I had this mindset that I would go indirect and just show that I’m an interesting person. That way, they’ll be attracted. But I knew and I could see that they still thought that I was hitting on them so it was usually a hit or miss for me. And push/pulls are so money, because I know D is a grandmaster in push/pulls and gets great results from it.

So I start incorporating them.
SS (to blonde): I like your friend, she is really sexy….too bad she’s not my type.
HbCareer: WHAT?! What do you mean I’m not your type?
SS: Look, you’re really nice and all…but you’re just too nice for me. When we are together we would always argue and I would always win. What’s the fun in that!
HbCareer: No no….[qualifying herself]

They are great stock lines and I’ll continue to use them for a while. Eventually I want to come up with them on the fly. I saw lots of windows of escalation. She talked about how she prefers asians. We talk some more about our fashion and then she tells her friend “You know…I like dating young asians”. DING DONG! Time for escalation so I isolate her while kong wings me.

We continue vibing and I get attraction. Then, the intelligent woman she is, starts to do the same things to me, those damn push/pulls.
HbCareer: You know what….
SS: What?
HbCareer: You and I would be really good friends. We should hang out and I’ll introduce you to my friends. I know someone who is really suited for you. So tell me, what is your type?
SS: Well, I like all types of girls. [I tell her the details]
HbCareer: You’re so lucky. I know someone who just fits your description. She’s 22, more your age, and…..

At this point I feel attracted to her, it’s intense. Man, now I realize how powerful this stuff is.

HbCareer: I think you’re cute. I should adopt you as my little son…because that’s what all hollywood people do now.

FUCK! I love her, she is playing me and I feel it. She is good.

SS: No no, I think you’re adorable. I’m gonna adopt you as my little sister. We’re gonna climb trees and drink kool aid [cajun]
(That line is so money, but I need to come up with my own soon. I heard it too much now ;P)
HbCareer: Nah ah, I’m older than you son. I’m your mommie and you have to listen to me.

We have a little frame battle but I win eventually. She is tough, but I can feel it’s on, even though the verbals exchanged told me otherwise. I start grounding and we share our childhood stories. Then I start running a sexual and non-judgmental frame and she eats it.

What I’ve been trying to use lately is a phrase that “I can’t believe I met this person at a club” and do like a false exit. I pretend to leave her. It’s what El Topo told me, just before some more grounding and leading her out of state, pretend you leave her and start a new story. It stirrs this fear of loss in her. It’s money.

SS: You’re really interesting. Like, I can’t believe that I met you at a club. I don’t meet people like you here. This has been amazing meeting you. I mean I really don’t people like this. [pretend to leave]
[start new comfort story]

I start using Future’s k-close routine (for the first time) to build up some tension.

SS: Come here, you’re cute and have you ever heard of the virtual kiss?
HbCareer: No…
SS: We’re gonna go forehead to forehead and touch each other’s noses, but we can’t kiss each other. We have to pinky swear on that!
[we pinky swear]
[lock foreheads and noses]
SS: You can’t kiss me! You can’t kiss me! Ohhh, don’t come closer! You can’t kiss me!

This is a nice k-close routine to build up some tension. Deelucks comes and we do the little photo routine.

Deelucks: Hey guys, you guys look great together. Let me take a quick picture of you guys.
[we pose]
Deelucks: No come on, it has to be sexy.
Ok so at this point I pull her face to me and we lock lips.

She didn’t resist so I guessed that the next time I do the virtual kiss she would go for it. And she did!
[while sensually kissing]
SS: Okay honey, [push her off], that’s all you get for tonight.
HbCareer: [looks stunned but wants more and comes back]
SS: We’re gonna save the rest for later.
HbCareer: No…[she starts sucking my neck and then leaves]

I liked the sucking, but then she left with her friend. Man, she is good. It sent me mixed signals and I could feel the fear of loss. I wanted her and she wanted me.

I run some more sets and wing some people, but deep down I felt the attraction I had for this woman who has her life put together. I would see her friend, HbBlonde, and I win her over. We’re totally cool with each other and enjoy each other’s company.

I see HbCareer with another dude and we noticed each other. She keeps talking to me but I can tell she doesn’t it. They exchange numbers in front me and I try not to get jealous…but I did at first. But then her friend me told she didn’t like him and that she was actually tired of him following her. What a relief… Then I came up to merge sets to make her jealous to amp up the attraction. I found this drunk one-set and we walked in prom style around.

SS (to HbCareer): Hey mommie, this is my new buddy.
HbCareer: Who is she?
SS: We are like bff’s, she is crazy but I like her.

You should have seen the look on her face, it was money. Then I steal HbCareer from the Bill Gates look-alike and I run some more comfort routines. Eventually we went dancing and I escalated kino. I yanked her to the bar and leaned back. She starts to grab my balls and it fucking hurt!
HbCareer: I want you so bad.
SS: [looking like "I want you too"]
HbCareer: [goes in for the kiss but I turn my cheeck. She starts sucking my neck]
SS: We’ll save it for later.
HbCareer: [continues sucking my neck and I'm sure she feels my boner now]
SS: Come here [heavy makeout]

We were like one of the few at the bar so everyone could see us in action. I didn’t care. I liked the sucking, it’s so hot. She starts grabbing my dick again and getting her hand under my shirt. Out of nowhere she twists my nipple!
SS: WTF was that!
HbCareer: [going in for the makeout]
HbCareer: I want you so bad, it’s sick.
SS: I want you too. If these people weren’t here I would fuck you so hard from behind. You wouldn’t be able to walk the next day.
[makeout]

At this point I realized sinn’s ass cup of destiny. I tried to get my hands in her pants, but they were fucking tight! I couldn’t get in…hahaha!

We dance some more and I started rubbing her titties. She pushed my hands under her shirt and bra, so I could feel everything.
Then go back to the bar. Now she wants to see if I can handle her.
HbCareer: I want you so bad, but you can’t handle me.
SS: Fuck you…I’m the dominant one here.
HbCareer: No, you can’t handle me.
I grabbed the roots of her hair, pulled it down, and started licking from her chest up to her mouth and go for the makeout. She loved it and so did I.

Then she was telling me how she wanted a threesome! “OMG, my first lay from a cold approach could be a threesome! Awesome!” was going through my mind. The thing is, the other girl would be her blonde friend. I wasn’t into her, but I would do it anyway just for the threesome. But she was 100% sober and I made her my ‘buddy’ earlier, so that threesome would be hard to pull off I guess. Anyway, fucking her would be great too! =)

We did some more dirty talking and I took her to a more dark spot in the club. I did the badboy k-close kino routine (it’s very dominant) and makeout ensured. She lowered her shirt and bra. I could see her nice titties and I start sucking her nipples. We both are so turned on that we both want to leave the club and get it on.

The thing is, she would never leave without her friend. Even though she was buzzed she is very loyal to her friend. I tried to get her out and take her to an ally or whatever, but no avail. We find her friend and we leave the club. I remember sinn telling that as soon you leave the club, don’t talk logic shit! It will ruin her BT. So when we walked out we started singing songs for a long time. I avoided talking at all times and just kept singing. It worked.

We get to her car and her friend drives. I start making out with HbCareer and started fingering her in the backseat. Then HbBlonde interrupts.
HbBlonde: Where is your car? I’ll drop you off there.
SS: Oh no, I carpooled. HbCareer wanted to show me her asian decorations and so we’re heading off to her place.
HbBlonde: Sorry buddy, but not tonight.

I keep plowing and trying to convince her to keep driving home. Then the girls were talking about a ‘Tim’ and then I found out he is staying at HbCareer’s place. Hmmm… FUCK! I plow plow plow. I want to get laid! Plow plow plow. But no use, so she dropped me off at my buds place.

So yeah, I almost got it. But almost is not enough. What was interesting was that she kept telling me “but you said that I wasn’t your type”. Hmm interesting, somehow it got stuck in her head. Is that push/pull + false DQ really that good?

Now the follow up. I have her number and her friend’s number. I texted the friend the same night with “I hope you guys got home safe. Talk to you guys soon!” and she replied with “Ya we did. Thanks”
I’m going to call both of them (next day, which is today as I write this FR) and I just hope that HbCareer doesn’t have some remorse.

If anyone has some tips to handle such a situation where one girl drives the other home, it would be much appreciated. My first thought that a wing would need to have HbBlonde attracted. But spit your thoughts here!

My balls still hurt, she grabbed them a lot and all that sexual tension just gave me blue balls. It was a great night either way :)

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FR

Today was another day on campus. I got together with robotlove and we started hitting off. He opened this 4set with really hot asian girls, just my type. But then I knew that my game has sucked lately so I gave this one to him. He reached the hookpoint and I was like, “damn that could have been mine…” Oh well.

Then I see this lonewolf sitting down and having a smoke. I open her but she is holding back. Slowly her BL is closing up and I know I screwed up somewhere. SMILE MAN! Man, I gave this negative vibe that I could even feel myself.

Then I see this moving fob and I open her. But then I recognize her, she is in one of my classes. So this #close was quite easy. She is social circle material.

Then I see this Hb9 sitting down on the phone. She is totally my type; asian, beautiful dark hair, slim&fit, boobs and intelligent with a pretty face. I go for it. I open and sit down. Now what I normally don’t do is false disqualiying myself. I just want to be this cool and interesting guy that she will like when I go indirect. But this time I did falsely DQ myself by calling her a dork and teasing her. After I was like 5 min in and she reminded me that I might need to go to class. Hmm, that remined me that her logic mind was at work. I dismissed it and continued vibing. The first 5 min was my custom routine stack and after that I tried to talk to her on a emotional level, by trying to portray pictures in her mind. So I would vividly describe my experiences and feelings and talk….s…l…o…..w. This was actually pretty hard but I started seeing IOIs so I thought I was doing a goob job. I find out that she has a similar background so that was great material to vibe from. She started asking me how old I was and made her guess.
Hb9: 22?
SS: Omg that’s a good guess. So you must be 21?
Hb9: I’m actually 23. So are you 22?
SS: Yeah

At this point I wasn’t sure if I should tell her I’m actually younger. Like, sometimes age can be such a dealbreaker and I had trouble reframing at this point. Then out of nowhere I notice this big ass wedding ring, I pretend to ignore it. But then the thought crossed my mind that we could be great friends, so then I wouldn’t have to lie about my age.

About 20 min in, she asks for my name. I hardly ever introduce myself because I want girls to ask first (small IOI). Just so I can map out where I am. There are exceptions of course. I mentioned karaoke several time and then I go for the #close. Definitly a solid one and that what counts. Well, I know she’s married (never explicit told me) but she will make a great friend who is hot too. I need to day2 her for lunch or something. I’m starting to climb that mountain again reaching the top.

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FR

Today I did some more sets on campus. To be short, man I still suck. I lost my mojo where I can’t get my head straight and be that confident guy that will attract every girl he approaches.

I saw one of the girls I #closed a week back and I went up to her. I noticed she is different when I’m alone with her. She is more intimate (like I always am 1on1) but when her friends are around, it’s more like she barely knows me. Kinda weird, I think I need to win her friends over. Maybe she’s thinking that her friends won’t like me or whatever. Anyway, we had some good conversation but then my mind went kinda blank. I didn’t DLV myself, but the conversation like almost died and then she started playing with her phone. So I did one funny story to get her laugh and then leave on a high note. I will see her tomorrow at a party.

Anyway, even though I’m really attracted to her, physically and mentally, I just don’t have that vibe anymore where everything is clicking. So getting her to be more than a friend hasn’t really worked so far. In my mind she would make a great friend for my new short-term strategy, which is having a great social circle. She goes out once a while, so she is perfect for that. With that in mind, I hardly kino her which places me in the friendzone. I’m cool with that. She has cute friends and cousins! :-)

On to my sets of the day. I saw this lonewolf on her phone and when she went off the phone I opened her and sat next to her. Ran my normal stack, got her attracted but then her boyfriend came in. Before he would talk to her, she left already kind of warning me. Haha, whatever.

Then there was this 5 set and me and my buddy would go in hand-in-hand acting like gays. Then immediatly this girls blocks us “We’re kinda busy with a school project which involves a lot of concentration…” So I immediatly reply “Oh she must be the den mother of the group, how cute…” and that caused a laugh. But we still weren’t hooked and then the set died. Oh well, it was fun.

I think I did one more set, but I can’t remember it vividly. I guess it wasn’t that good.

I know everyone goes through pitfalls and it seems like I’m in one. It’s not like I’m not approaching, but that drive is a bit gone. Where I was on fire last week, the last couple of sarges I lost it. How do I get out of this? Well first I think by not letting this affect me. I need to keep opening sets and pushing it. I need to stop whining about this and start self amusing. Girls shouldn’t be a source of validation for me and I think it is for now. I need to get rid of this. ASAP. See you out in field.

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FR

I think I’m going to post more often what’s on my mind, without the formal editing and stuff. Just so I can read back how I was doing and to see how I really felt at a certain point. Well, this is my first rant where I really just let loose.

My pickup skills are not very good yet that I can limit my time in field. At one point I want to be really good and go pro. I want to be able to pickup any girl that I’m attracted to. When I’ve reached that point, that’s the moment I can take some time off and be less in field. Then pickup is already a part of my lifestlyle, because whenever I’m out of my place I can pickup girls.

Now I have to allocate time to sarge and get in state. In the near future I want to be in state 24/7. Heck I can even pickup girls when I’m taking a dump in the women’s bathroom! Untill then, I have to remind myself to push myself to the limits. Like today, I had to work the whole day for school so I stayed home the whole day. I wanted to open at least some sets as a break, but something stopped me from doing it. I need to push myself more. Am I too hard on myself? Maybe, but I want to become good at this so I need to push myself.

Like going solo, I don’t like it. I can’t pump myself doing it. I always need someone with me to get that competitive spirit out of me. But I need to do it more often, just to get used to it. I can imagine myself doing day game by myself, but not at a nightclub. Man, I would chode like a *****. But I need to do it in the future. I NEED TO DO IT.

The last couple of days my head has been going crazy. Sometimes I was thinking that I needed a break from this because my school grades would be affected. But they aren’t (yet) because everything is going smooth so far. However I do need to get less lazy and start combining work, school, and pickup.

Also, I’ve been a little frustrated since my last 3 sarge sessions were all horrible. Getting blown out all the time. Sometimes I laugh really hard at myself when I get a total blowout. But if it happens all the time, then you’re doing something wrong. I admit, I was tired, but still. NO EXCUSES. I need to keep at it. I want to be good at this. Also I lost some girls by my phone and text game, something I recently got into. Finally I’m starting to use my numbers, but I’m still new at this. But yeah, I lost some girls by phone+text game. I think that I have that abundance mentality, but not totally yet because of this. I even got upset because this hottie stopped picking up her phone and stopped texting me back. Man, what am I thinking! She is missing out and I’m the fucking prize. NEXT!

I’ve realized how far I’ve come in the last 3 months. I’ve been in the community now for 4 months, 1 month keyboard jockey-ing and then 3 months actively in field. I can remember myself opening sets like a beginner where I just asked for their opinion and then left. My AA wasn’t that bad, because my best friend is a girl so I was kinda used to talking to a girl. But still, man I was nervous. Also, I really didn’t reach a plateau for a long period of time. Sure I had sticking points, but they would usually be fixed within a week. I still see myself progressing, but I just know at one time I’m going to hit a ceiling for a (long) period of time. It’s almost inevitable. But I don’t want to encounter it, man I must go crazy if I’d hit it. Now I’m already frustrated about my last 3 sarges which happened within a span of a week. Pffft, better not hit it. I want to become good at this.

If there is something I can learn from my past, then it’s that I can be extremely dedicated and get good at my hobbies. So far this has by far been the most toughest hobby by far. But I want to be fucking good at it. Sometimes I’m just amazed how dedicated I can be at this. Sometimes I think it’s over the top and then I start thinking that I need a break to clear my mind for a bit. But NO, I want to be good at this.

Man, it feels good to rant like this. I need do this more often while I listen to some girly music like the spice girls. Gotta love it.

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