Social Pancake – Blooming for Success

This is the BEST seminar I’ve ever went to! That’s how I want to start this review, because the content and the things I learned is absolutely money. I’ve wanted to take this seminar for a while, but I waited for an opportunity to have both geniuses Mr M and Braddock teaching it.

Social Circle Mastery does require that you have some basic knowledge of ‘game’ and you can at least do cold approaches, because you’ll need CA skills for building social circles. Braddock starts off with a good analogy: cold approaching is like hunting, and social circle building is like farming. With cold approaches you can go in like a sniper and get that one girl you want, whereas with social circle game you plant seeds, nurture, and then get a stream of GIRLS you want.

Going out all the time is fun for a while, but I also want to have a really cool social circle. It doesn’t necessarily have to be so I can have sex with a lot of girls (although that has be part of it). I also want to have cool friends who give me good emotions. Also I want to be well connected. Do you know a guy that always get stuff done or always has the “hookups” for things? I want to be that guy, or an “ultimate connector” like Braddock or Mr M would say. If I need to get something done, I want to have the option of calling several people who can help me. If I want to have a girl accompany me to an event, I want to be able to look at my phone and say to myself: “These 10 girl friends all want to hang out with me and would love to go with me to this event”.

What you’ll learn in this seminar is really how social circles work. Most people who meet each other is either through work or their friends. Meaning, social circles are everywhere. Mr M and Braddock explain why you don’t want to use cold approach skills within a social circle, because you game differently in a social circle. Key terms are explained and referenced a lot. Before I went to this seminar, I made sure I read some of the articles of Mr M and Braddock on social circles so I was a little bit prepared.

The models they teach completely make sense. I’ve always had some sort of a vague idea how social circles work, but how Braddock and Mr M teach and explain it is crystal clear. They back it up with stories and examples of how social circles work. The most interesting part for me was “gaming the connectors”. My goal (short term) is to mix club and social circle game, kind of like what BradP explains in his club game CDs. What Braddock and Mr M teach is how you befriend those people who give you access to the HOT girls. You know, usually it’s the ugly girl of the group, but it can be anyone. Then when the time is right, you strike the hottest girls in the social circle.

Then after the basics were covered, we got into the application of the theories. This seminar is so easy to follow and is very structured, so going over everything was very smooth. The domino and waterfall effect make sense and they explain how and why it works. They also go over how you can escape the dreaded “lets just be friends” (LJBF) zone and use it to your advantage. The MRB5 model is absolutely money. Money, money, money. They clearly explained it and I’ve tried it after the seminar with some girls that are in my circle with success. Every time they see me, they give me this “look” that Mr M explained. I’ve created buzz! Everything they teach is so easy to apply, and since it’s within your social circle, your margin of error is bigger than at cold approaches. Also, you can build value of time and work your SC game at many different circles. That’s so great about social circle game, you can technically work a lot of girls at the same time and collect the dividends later.

There is one thing that I missed: what the best way is to stay in contact with all those connectors? Do you call those people a lot? Text them? If so, how do you do that best? Add them to your IM? I think Facebook is a great way to stay in contact with a lot of connectors, something Soul and I talked about briefly. It’s something they could add to their program. They went thoroughly over the MRB5 model, with each step clearly explained, but I did miss something. I think if Mr M and Braddock explained it through a story of how they applied the model, it would have made it click more and glued everything together. Kind of like a LR broken down at the seminar using the model and other theories at the end of the seminar. That really would have completed the seminar. Also, after you’ve slept around in your circle, how do you maintain the circle? Most of the info was given to get you the circle, but little was talked about on the maintenance of circles. Also we talked very briefly of setting frames for fuck buddies, I wish we could have gone over that a little bit more. Another thing, something that might seem common sense, but I guess it would be good advice to be very discreet when you sleep around in your circle. Like if you slept with a girl in your circle, and you see her again at a party of whatever, you have to act like nothing happened and keep being discreet. Things like this would be a good addition to the seminar.

By the time the seminar was over, I really understood the articles I’ve read before and I saw the potential of social circle game. Really, this seminar is absolutely money. I really loved it. What you’ll learn is also applicable to business and other situations in life, not just to girls. However, that is a connection you have to make yourself. They teach it in a way that’s meant for getting girls, but I’m sure Braddock and Mr M could add an extra segment on how you can apply the theories to business and other areas of your life, like what Mr M calls “mentor game” (gaming high value guys) and so on. It’s nice for a change to run social circle game and actually sleep around with girls you actually get to know, instead of some random club girl. I’ve always wanted to have a super cool social circle and now I have the knowledge and tools to do get one. I’ve implemented some of the teachings and they work. Trust me, the info they give you is MONEY. It blew me away. If you want to have a stream of girls in your life, then take this seminar!!!

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Braddock and Mr M rolled out a new seminar on inner game. I’ve always wondered how you can improve your inner psychology at a much faster rate. My idea on inner game was that you’ll get more confidence and self-esteem by continually experiencing successes, kind of the approach going from outer game to inner game. If you keep getting better at pickup, you’ll get more success, and as you keep getting more successes (dates, lays, social circle, etc) then you’ll automatically get your inner game up to par. For example, I always thought I could never get Caucasian girls (me being Asian). Then I got a Caucasian fuck buddy and now I think I can get every Caucasian girl! But this took me a long time to realize. What if I never met that specific at that specific time? I still would have been stuck with that limiting belief.

But this is a long process going from outer game to inner game, so I was really curious and excited at the same time to take this seminar so I can speed up the process. I’ve been struggling with some limiting beliefs and having confidence issues on a deep level. Sometimes I think, “Do I really deserve a ten?” I don’t even want those thoughts coming up…

I would consider myself a happy person most of the time, but when my personal situation gets in trouble it will affect me BAD. For example, I remember times when my business was in big trouble and that I was in big financial trouble. All day long all I was thinking how I could solve this problem and consequently whenever I was going out I got blown out all day long for several weeks. My inner game problems affected my outer game.

But if you have yourself put together and have confidence, these problems should bounce right off you and your emotions shouldn’t be your deciding factor for making decisions. Braddock and Mr M (with Sheriff) have this excellent interview series on “Being an Alpha Male” (vol 25) that has some really good inner game concepts. I’ve been reading these notes every 2 weeks and I was hoping the inner game would go deeper on it. Also, I didn’t want this seminar to be a summary of several self-help books.

Braddock starts off with an interesting quote: “If you want to change the world, you have to change yourself first”. We are told what the concepts are for the pathway to change. And so we begin with Mr M and Braddock starting off with giving a break down of how we can change ourselves on a biological level. They give scientific evidences and reasoning on how we can change. It was very captivating, especially after I attended the mini-seminar on inner game at the super conference. They talk about neuronets, peptides and other scientific concepts which are very interesting. I loved how they demonstrated these concepts with their hand movements, that really got stuck in my head. Every time when they asked us something on neuronets, I would answer them with my hand movements! It really stuck.

Have you ever met someone and you knew right away that THAT person has his life together? I certainly have and Braddock and Mr M explain how that works. Apparently we have certain receptors for detecting what someone else “feels” inside. Imagine when you have your inner psychology together, you walk up to a girl, and she can feel right away that you’re a REAL confident guy. That’s attraction right of the bat before you even do something.

Then they go over paradigm shifts, how you know when you get one, and how to look for them. This was super interesting. Of course the concept of “value” couldn’t be overlooked. That’s one of the core concepts in pickup, and I liked how they related pickup concepts with some biology and psychology concepts. It is like when you read “Influence” and relate those concepts to pickup, your eyes will open up and everything starts making sense. During the whole seminar, I was getting new ideas and just kept nodding my head. Thing started to click, or like how Mr M would do it Jim Cramer style: BOOOYAAHHHH!

“To find yourself, you need get a little bit lost”
Great quote! We went over setting goals and what that does to you. Task completion feels good to the body and Braddock explained why you want to set small goals every time you go out. It has biological AND psychological effects on you that will improve your inner game. They also went over the behaviors that are unattractive (like neediness) and how you can avoid and fix them. You can’t always fix them over night, but knowing what you’re working on helps in improving your self-esteem. Also the concept of “being the in the moment”, something I didn’t FULLY understand from Tolle’s book, is discussed. You can be in the moment all the time if you have yourself together and Braddock and Mr M go over in details about this.

There were so many more concepts. In fact, we didn’t even complete the full seminar in 6 hours. We completed maybe 1/3 of the whole seminar and it turned out that it’s going to be a 2 day seminar. Love Systems is kind enough to give me and the other attendees free access to future inner game seminars since we didn’t finish the whole seminar. It’s hard to criticize this seminar because I didn’t get the chance to do the whole seminar, but here’s one thing: More practical exercises or points to know. A lot was concepts and scientific break downs. I would have loved for them to tell us, “do this and this and this….write this down…..” so it’s more practical. How do you apply this knowledge? This is what I missed. One time we did do it by writing down on what we do when we seek approval. It got me thinking and when I heard the answers of others, it made me realize I do it too. Another was when they said, “write down all the limiting beliefs you have” and so I did. Now Mr M and Braddock should have gone over them with each and one of us to discuss them. I think then it will have a bigger impact when you say them out loud and them providing feedback.

Every single time I go over my notes, I learn new things. At the time when I was writing these concepts down, I didn’t fully grasp them. But every time I reread them, I’m starting to see things more clearly. I’m starting to understand what Mr M and Braddock mean and it feels good. The material they gave me is so powerful that I’m reading it every night before I go to bed to internalize it. If you’ve listened to the “Being an Alpha Male” IVS and you liked it, then you will LOVE this seminar. It covers those concepts in a LOT more detail and in more practical ways too. I honestly can’t say that this seminar killed my inner daemons, but it has certainly made me aware of inner game concepts. The information they give you is money! I can’t wait for the full seminar!

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So I was at the Super Conference and met up with Soul. I’ve met him before at a recent lair talk and I learned a ton from him. After implementing some stuff from the lair talk, I got some really good results. So I couldn’t wait to see what the full seminar is about.

Soul is a very warm person and easy to talk to. After attending his deep rapport talk at the SC, you understand why. I’m pretty sure that he’s an avid fan of Dale Carnegie’s “How to win friends and influence people” and he knows how to implement this into his personality. As he walks in the seminar room, he sends out warm energy. I couldn’t wait to see what this seminar is all about. To be honest, I didn’t have much expectations. My mindset was something like “If I do well at club game, then I will master day game easily without any info” but boy I was going to be wrong on that.

Soul starts off with the mindset he has and explains what you need to have to be good at day game. Soul is all about direct day game, but there are also situations where indirect is more effective. Of course he goes over that too and explaining why different situations require different approaches.

Then we go over the Emotional Progression Model and how you go through it with day game. He walks you through it with examples and we even get to do some exercises such as opening. What I really liked is that he gave really useful tips and info that you find anywhere. Those little things you can do with your tonality, body language, and facial expressions that can make or break your approach.

You get plenty of material that you can use right away for each phase of the EMP. They serve as examples and Soul highly encourages to come up with your own stuff, but that wasn’t too hard after knowing that some of his openers and other routines are.

We closed with info on handling logistics and doing same day lays. Since I’m at a point in my life where I don’t want a girlfriend nor want to go on dates, this is where I really wanted to get the meat of the seminar. I got some good info on it and the basics, but due to the time limit, I think there was more to it than was given. I would have loved to hear from Soul more stories on how he did same day lays and working out logistics. Another criticism would be to get more exercises done with Soul. We did do opening exercises, but I would love to have done some approaches on him to open, transition, and some qualification. That way you can get feedback on your general interaction and body language throughout the interaction. However, this is a seminar so if you want to get feedback on that, take a bootcamp. And of course, having some infield portion would be awesome too, but I understand that this is a seminar.

I have to take back my remarks that I didn’t need that day game seminar, because I learned a lot from this. Just because you only do bar and club game, doesn’t mean that you will do well at day game. I know plenty of guys who do really well at bars and clubs, but when they see a hot girl in the daytime they are totally uncalibrated and most of the time don’t even have the balls to approach. For day game, you need to have the balls to put yourself out there and a slightly different strategy for picking up women. Soul delivers and he will tell you what you need to successfully pickup women during the day. All the little tips and tricks that you don’t find anywhere is what I really liked about this seminar, plus the info on logistics and same day lays. If you don’t like to go to bars and clubs, but want to pickup girls in the daytime, this seminar is for you.

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The Super Conference in LA was AMAZING! I took a bootcamp at this Super Conference, so I had the SC seminars during the day and at night I went out with some instructors.

I went to the last Super Conference in Vegas earlier this year so I had high expectations. This SC was better than the last one. This time you also had 2 sessions running at the same time, but now you could work a lot more with the instructors on a wide variety of topics such as opening and transitioning, handling amogs and tests, body language, and many more. That way I worked with a lot of different instructors. I picked up different stuff from every instructor and that to me is what’s so great about the Love Systems Super Conferences: you get to work with who you want. They are all good, but have different styles and strengths/weaknesses. One instructor might be an expert on SNLs while the other is better at social circle game. Whatever you want, LS has instructors that are experts on different areas and you can just walk up to them and ask them whatever you need to know.

I never had the idea that the instructors “were better” than the attendees. My impression of them was they were genuine in helping people and were just like “us”. At the last SC, it was a bit more chaotic because the rooms were far apart. That way it was hard catching instructors, but this time the rooms were right next to each other. That was perfect for finding instructors you wanted to talk to. After every session you could always talk to the speaker(s) and ask very specific questions. Unless instructors were in a hurry, you could always grab their attention and get some personalized feedback.

This also helped a lot of what I disliked at the last Super Conference. People would continually ask very specific/tailored questions on their own situation that was of little use to the room. This time, since all the instructors were easily accessible, those questions were avoided in the room and were done in private with the instructors, so time was saved for some better “general” questions everyone could use and more time for practice.

Also what I picked up was that LS speakers were trying to make the presentations in the main room more interactive by involving the audience. I did not see it much if at all at the last SC.

This time we all got a binder with a notepad so we could take notes. Much better than the last SC and definitely gave a more professional twist to this conference. BTW: The sales people were very nice too. They’re not all over you trying to sell anything to you. If you we’re interested in services, like 1on1 or seminars, they were gladly trying to help you out.

Bootcamp
Where I really got my money’s worth was the bootcamp (infield portion). For someone who has been doing this for about 10 months and who went to the last SC, I had a lot of theory in my head already. But I never had professionals give me feedback on my game, and guide me to take my game to the next level.

The first night I went out with Braddock and Biskit. I’ve met Braddock the first time in Vegas at the SC, and I believe he wasn’t a lead instructor then, but his knowledge is unreal. You can pick his brain for hours and he’ll cite different books for you to back up statements without any hesitation. Also, you can tell that he’s really passionate about teaching game. Braddock gave me really good feedback, like super good feedback. He winged me in one set and saw me do several sets, but he said what I do well and pinpointed what my sticking points are. He also told me how I can fix them.

I didn’t know much about Biskit, it was my first time meeting him. I didn’t know anything about him, but let that not distract you. The first night I saw him doing demos and that guy knows what he is doing. Does he have game? Yes sir! It’s nothing flashy that might awe new students. His sets are really solid and he break it down step-by-step for you. In the field he pushed me so I would always be in set and not just stand around talking to other students and instructors. Biskit is very positive and will give you the right feedback at the right time. My sessions with him were good, and he would always willing to help me out. Absolutely great guy to work with.

The second night I went out with Cajun and Kisser. I’ve met both of them before, Cajun at the Vegas SC and Kisser outside of a club during an LA BC. When you meet Kisser, you can tell he’s always positive. I’m almost 100% that his brain chemicals are different. This guy exudes positivity to the nth degree, and those are the kind of people you want to work with. He’s the perfect example of nice guys who can get girls, if you just know the Love Systems techniques and tactics. If you see him infield, you’ll see “nice guy game” in action!

Cajun on the other hand is the bad boy of the team. He has this James Bond vibe around him. He might be short, but his aura screams “I’m sexy and trouble”. If you need anything on body language, you can talk to him about that. He did several sets with me and I saw him do some sets himself. He’s a lead instructor for a good reason: he can run solid game, break it down for you, and give you good feedback. Cajun told me similar stuff that Braddock gave me and gave another set of solutions.

Now that I had several instructors tell me almost the exact same thing, I truely know what I should work on. Self-diagnosis is hard and not always accurate. By having several instructors tell me what my sticking points are and how to solve them, this is really what you pay for. I’d highly suggest for everyone to get a BC, it’s worth the money. I’m college student and tight on money, but investment was totally worth it. It totally opened my reality on what I can do now and in the future. I’ve posted two field reports of my nights and this bootcamp crushed two sticking points. The BC definitely cut my learning curve by several months up to maybe a year, because it eliminated two sticking points and now I know what weaknesses I have in my game. With that I also have exercises and notes on how to improve my success with women. TAKE A BOOTCAMP!!!!

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State of Mind
Second night of the bootcamp! I was going out with Cajun and Kisser, two absolutely cool guys, that I’ve worked with over the LS Super Conference. After a first good night of progress and great feedback, it was time for another killer night.

Goal for the Night
Move girls more around the venue and make sure that my instructors were seeing me. I’m slowly starting to realize how important compliance is. Without testing for compliance, you can’t really tell how far you are with the girl. Also, I needed to show that I really screen girls, like throwing out a big hoop so that the girl knows she’s being screened.

I would always built emotional momentum with small hoops and then a lot of medium hoops, but I realized I never really did the big hoops. So I needed to do that this time.

Progress of my Goal
We meet up at a bar and shoot the shit with some other instructors and students. Over the course of the night, I moved several girls around the venue. This showed to me that I can build attraction, but it’s something I’m nothing always aware of. Attraction is really not that big of a deal.

Random Sets
At the first bar, one student comes in at a seated set with “Sorry I’m late” and 1 minute later I do the exact same thing to the set. It was funny but the set dies soon as I sit there alone with 5 girls. Good warm up.

At the next venue things start to click. I get on the patio and open up the first set I see. Then I ask Cajun how he would handle this mixed 3set (ffm). The guy is locked in by leaning against a armchair and the two girls are surrounding him. He tells me about how you can lockin by leaning back and putting all your weight on your back foot. I practise the stance with him and then open the set. The guy is being a bit cold at first, but I treat him with respect. Slowly but surely the girls like me, so every time the guy started to fuck with me, it would make him look bad, even though he was the husband of the obstacle.

I teased my target a bit and ignored her for the first few minutes. Then Cajun comes in to wing and his banter is just really good. Too funny :) The set didn’t really go anywhere and I think I didn’t build that much attraction with my girl, although she would jump through my hoops. Cajun told me later that I did have attraction, but I miss a lot of windows of escalation.

Next set I come as a wing and isolate of the girls. We do fuck marry kill and I parade her around the venue. I see Moxie and he greets me like I’m some bigshot. Toooooo funny. I love that guy, he’s so full of positive energy and goofy, and he knows his stuff.

I sit down with her so I’m fully isolated away from her friends. I didn’t want to make the mistake of the previous night, when I went for the kiss in front of her friends. So I’m running Cajun’s comfort routine again to escalate the interaction more sexual. Right away she gets a call and it’s one of her friends. Since we were isolated away from people, I couldn’t really talk to other people nearby. So I sit there as a tool waiting for her to end her call. She leaves and I go to Cajun for feedback. He told me to basicly leave first and tell her she needs to answer her phone, we could talk later.

I could have re-opened that set, but I decided to move on and start opening other sets.

Best Set of the Night
Kisser tells me to open this 3set of girls.

SS: You guys seem friendly, are you guys cool?
HBBlond: Yes we are.
SS: Great, Hi I’m SirSlick.

Easy. Now this where it gets messy. Obviously the blond one is the hottest but I tease her real quick and then start working the two other girls, HbLaw and HbChubby. Guy X (not real handle, instructor in training I think?) starts to isolate my target (he was at the BC just to chill) and I was like, “Hmmm that’s my target. Oh well, I’ll go for HbLaw then, she’s cute”. Just a minor miscommunication here.

My co-student takes the obstacle and now I isolate my new target. We parade the venue again with Fuck Marry Kill and I can really talk to this girl. She’s intelligent, something I value very much, and she impresses me with her knowledge. So far so good.

Then we head back to her friends, because I wanted to make sure her friends were cool with me. We then all move outside and then the other two want to play FMK too. So I parade the patio with these three girls and shoot the shit for a little bit.

Then I finally get the blond girl isolated. I tell her to play FMK and she says “I want to fuck” in away she didn’t have dick for a while and wants some now. She didn’t look at me while she said it, but I got the signal. Then I move her to get a more secure spot but it was so crowded that we could barely move. So I whisper in her ear:

SS: If all these people weren’t here….I would bend you over that table…..and take care of business.
HbBlond: *giggles*

I’m still looking for a way to get out of this patio and look for a secure spot to get some action. After like 5 minutes of no movement, she wants to head back to her friends. I’m like, “FUCKKKKK” I blew it again. She now really doesn’t want to move with me anymore and so we walk back to her friends.

DAMN.

So by now I’ve switched target once. Guy X comes back and he goes back to talking to the blond girl. So I head back to my old target and I call over Moxie to help me out what to do next.

By now I make HbLaw my target again after Moxie worked her a bit. I move her around more and now I really start throwing a big hoop. She knows that I’m screening her but she complies, so it’s good. It felt really weird to throw out that blatant big hoop, and faking “I’m so high value, you should be happy that you’re around me and I’m not impressed by your looks…” It felt a bit incongruent, but that’s a sign I stepped out of my comfort zone, and I’m happy with that. From that moment on, everything I did to test compliance, she complied. It was ALMOST game over.

I tried to kiss her twice when I was fully isolated but she didn’t want to do it. But every time I did go for it and she rejected it, I acted like it was no big deal and kept talking. Since she was driving her friends home, I just went for the timebridge.

Worst Sets of the Night
No big blowouts, just some sets that didn’t hook. No biggie.

Sticking Points
Closing the deal. Twice I’ve been so close to a venue close but I just couldn’t fix the logistics and really push it.

Goals for Next Time
Braddock and Cajun gave me some really good feedback that I can work with. I will post another time what my exact SP are and what I’m going to do about it.

Great BC :)

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State of Mind
I sit in my hotel room and I’m psyched. I’m about to go on the bootcamp with Biskit and Braddock. With two professionals I was hoping to get some good feedback on my game so that I can crush those sticking points. And I was horny too, so that definitely helps for approaching.

Goal for the Night
My goals were pretty simple: open, transition, and lock in. That was all I’m worried about. That day I did some practice with some instructors (Kisser, Sheriff, and Sphinx) on my approaching skills. I picked up a lot of stuff, especially the little things. Even though I’ve been going out for like 9 months, I wanted to perfect my approaches. A good approach will make the rest of your set go way easier.

Progress of your Goal
I get in the venue, but I didn’t immediately open the first set I see. I shoot the shit first with my co-students and wait for the place to get packed.

To warm up I did 5 sets each less than a minute. I opened MOST sets that I wanted to open. Some sets I passed by because the moment wouldn’t let me lockin in a good position. That’s one of the things I picked up that day, before you approach, have a good idea where and how you’re going to lockin.

Random Sets
Did this 2set sitting with their back against the wall. I steal one of girl’s chair and start gaming, but it’s hard because they’re FOBs. I eject after 10 minutes.

At the bar, this girl is eating a salad. I tease her on that and we start to have a light conversation. Nothing special, every time I start qualifying, she complies, I reward. But I felt like the attraction wasn’t really there, but I didn’t test it with a big hoop, so I could be wrong. I should have squeezed her hand to test for attraction (got that from Braddock).

Best Set of the Night
I’m talking to Braddock and he correctly sees what my sticking points are. I need to be more playful, tease more, and be more “edgy”. He sees this 3set of good looking girls with a provided opener:

SS: (serious face) Hi, this is the VIP area. I’m going to have to throw you guys out.
HBSex: Who the fuck are you? (on a serious note, like “wtf man, get away”)
SS: I’m a bum
HBSex: Haha *hugs me* (flipped like a pancake)

I’ve seen it so many times. You open a set and you immediately get tested, pass the test, and the girls love you after that.

The girls love my teddy bear necklace and one of the girls gives me her necklace. Great, I have a prop so that I’m locked into the set. I start teasing the girls on their purses and outfits, just like Braddock told me to do. TEASE MORE. My target wants to know where the smoking patio is and then I move the three girls, by having two girls on my arms and the third walking behind us.

I could have gone straight to the smoking patio, but what I did was looking for an instructor first to DHV, critique, and tell me what to do while I’m leading those girls. I see Braddock and he starts to banter with my target and tells me what to do. Great, we get to the smoking area and I shoot the shit for a bit with the group.

Then I mini isolate the target from the group and the conversation starts to go more sexual. This is one of the other SP I have is to escalate interaction sexually. I’ve done it plenty of times before, but I can’t do it very consistently. After I recycled some qualification, I know I’m in comfort. I share some stories and so does she. Then we talk more about sexual topics and I bust out Cajun’s comfort routine (not sure if I can tell you guys, but it’s money). Now it’s getting really sexual; we talk about favorite positions, how to best masturbate, etc.

I’m thinking, lets go for the kiss. But either at that moment or just the moment before, I think I flinched. Before I started the routine, she already said that she needed to go to the bathroom. After like 10 minutes in to the routine, I really think I flinched for some of her crazy sexual questions, and lost the set there. I go for the kiss but she rejects, and then she heads out to the bathroom.

LOST!

I wanted to reopen later but according to the instructors it was better not to.

Worst Sets of the Night
Got some blowouts too, but not to harsh. At the beginning of the night, “Does this shirt make me look asian?” (mind you, I’m asian) and the girls have this straight face. Okay, they didn’t get it, so I tease them. Still no response. Next.

Two set at the entrance against the wall. One girl likes me, the other I didn’t pay much attention to. I didn’t lockin so I slowly got blown out of the set. Another thing I picked up that day, most of your blowouts are caused because you’re not locked in.

Sticking Points
Being really playful, bantering, and teasing. I definitely need to work on that.

Goals for NEXT time
Be more playful by having some stated based attraction routines and use trigger words to start teasing. The latter I really need to practise.

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I want to share something with you guys that me and D came up with this past weekend. When walking home from the club Saturday, we came to the conclusion we need to tweak our game for clubs. Cold approaches are hard in clubs. They are a bit easier in bars, and day game is way easier. But we both love clubs and that’s where we can find consistently the HOT girls we want. So we’ve decided to change our game plan.

We both go to the same venue every week and we know the staff and management. But it’s time to leverage that social proof and use it to our advantage. Let me first tell you what we want to achieve in the next 2 months.

Whenever we roll into a club, we have girls with us that are part of our club social circle. These girls give us social proof and bring us more girls. We’re starting to realize that cold approaches in the club is the hard way to get a girl that night. Especially if you want to date them, club girls aren’t the ones you want to date. You want to fuck them the same night so you don’t have to put the extra time of setting a date and such. Instead, we’re going to focus on building club social circles within the venue (and on streets, in lines, etc) and the girls within our circle are going to bring us the girls. We don’t go to them, they come to use. Like true high value guys.

Our goal is to make every hot girl in the club our friend. We’re not going to seduce them in any way. Yes, we’re putting them in the LJBF zone. We are the ones doing it, not them to us. This is a slight different closing mindset here. Whenever we see a hot girl, we have to TRUELY think we want to make her our friend. So that means when we approach them, we disqualify hard and get their contact info to bring them to our party. By harvesting a big social circle, we get accomplish a lot. Remember, hot women are like currency. The guys and clubs want them and are willing to pay for it. This sounds really harsh and superficial, but we’re looking at the bigger picture here.

This idea is not new. AFC Adam has been doing this for a while. I was planning to do this a while back too, but I didn’t have a plan to accomplish this. Nor did I have the right mindset. Now D filled that up and together we are going to work on this.

We got ourselves a copy of Brad P’s Club Game CDs and it’s very similar to his club game. We all know Brad P can do cold approaches and take a girl home, but his system of club game merged with social circle is something that we want to accomplish to consistently lay girls. If you’ve read his Adventures book, you’ll read that he lays a lot of clubs girls through his club social circle. We want to do the same thing.

So last night, Sunday night, we came together and got our notebooks. We wrote out a plan that we need to accomplish it. It has everything that we need to do to get that circle and hitting the goals. We outlined everything from how to make money for the doorman, how to get girls to be our friend till how we going to lay the girls. It’s all set out. Now we just have to implement it and see what works and what doesn’t work. Then we tweak it till the whole system works, from pre-open till lay.

Let me sketch a typical night out with me and D, the way we want it to be in the near future. We want to accomplish this in less than 2 months.

Scenario
I’m meeting up at D’s place and he already has two girls there that are in our club circle while I bring 2 of my girls. They have some drinks and we shoot the shit before we hit out to the club. We arrive at the club and meet up with another social circle of 5 girls and 2 guys. Everyone standing in line sees that me and D are the leader of this group and roll at the doorman. He knows us and we call each other by name. We tell him that we’re rolling with these girls so they get in for free. The 2 guys have to pay the cover at a small discount, so they get in for cheap and don’t have to wait in line. The doorman makes some money under the table and the club now has some hot girls. Everyone is happy.

We all get in and are having a good time. Every staff member greets me and D to get even more social proof. People see us with a big group of girls all dancing around us and having a good time. The staff is shooting the shit with us and the promoters come to us to have a little chat. We hook him up with some of our people in our circle. While we’re just chilling with our circle on the patio, another circle sees and greets us. We shoot the shit and we introduce them to the circle we came with, so we merge circles and make sure everyone gets to know each other. Girls love networking with other people and we just give everyone value.

We see some other familiar guys at the place and we know that they have the money to spoil a girl. They don’t have any game whatsoever, but they have the dough to take care of a girl. Oh man, he is so happy that he knows us because we know someone who would love to meet him. So we introduce him to one of our girls who will love him (likely for his money). We hook them up and let them be. We don’t expect anything in exchange, we just like hooking people up, but we know it will payoff in another way.

We get lazy and exploit our social proof. At this point we get approached by girls. Either that, or every approach we do is warm or so easy that any kid can do the wash. Our value in the venue is so high that every girl thinks we are a celebrity in the place. And that is how we are going to get our girls. We are going to be that 1% that girls are looking for. We are essentially recreating that value within the venue. Outside of it, we don’t have that perceived value, then we have the value that we think we have in our minds.

Cold approaches are a tool get girls in our circle, but the girls in our circle are the ones that are going to give us the girls. They introduce us to their friends and give us social proof + preselection. At this point in our game, whenever we look at players doing cold approaches we think it’s “try-hard”. We remind ourselves how we used to do that but now know that girls are working for us. It’s almost like a business where the girls are our employees and are working for us to get what we want, hot girls. We came to realize that it’s hard for girls to go home with a random guy from a club. It’s not impossible, just very tough. Instead, we know girls can fuck around in their circle and go home that night with someone in their circle. The club is just get the girls’ state up and horny, because all the guys approached them so their BT is sky high. But then they can’t go home with a random guy, so we drive them home and close the deal.

We don’t want to date girls. If we want to do that, we would do a lot more day game and online game. No, we want to play in the World Series and get the most prestigious prize. We know it’s not going to be done an one-game but it will take a while. But the wait and payoff is going to be worth it.

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State of Mind
I was at work and the last couple of hours at the end of the day I was all by myself at the office. So I was in a low state and not very talkative. I noticed when I came over to D that I wasn’t very talkative.

Goals of the Night
My goal was simple, be louder. So I would open sets at 3 feet away. That would force me to project. It will look really weird and the dynamic within the set is weird, especially you break it open. But it’s just practice so it’s all good.

Random sets
I only did 2 sets that night. First set is a moving single set, hot asian girl. The ones that know they are hot.

So she’s walking towards me.

SS: (happy tonality and smile on face) You fucking suck
[walked passed me and looking disgusted]
SS: (walks on with smile on face)

Well I found out later that she was a friend of JTR and he introduced her to me. That was a bit weird, but funny at the same time.

Best Set of the Night
So I’m chilling with some guys I never met before or met briefly before. Then I think cyse asks me how I would do this 3set behind me. Afterwards he asked me what I used, but I forgot at the time. But now I remember, so here it goes (that’s the advantage of using canned material for the first few minutes)

SS: Did you know that there’s a new law that forbids calling in a club? There’s a $2000 fine.
HBAsian: Bullshit!
SS: I’m here to collect :)
HBBlonde: I have only $5 (pulling some money out of her bra)
SS: And they’re all singles…
HBBlonde: Yeah because I’m a stripper.
SS: Cool. Before I go, I have to tell you that you guys look like geeky twins….you two have the exact same………dorky smile.

And then it was about me teaching the blond girl some salsa to escalate kino. Her attention span was short so I was just thinking of doing some push-pull to keep her attention. As I was about to pull her to the dancefloor, her friends beat me to it.

I remember that one guy came into my set to wing, but that didn’t go so well. But I did the damage control well to continue the set. But then I really needed a wing to handle to obstacles, because I wasn’t really paying attention to them. I was waiting for D to do the work, but he was just smiling at me that bastard :)

After that I had to go to handle some emergency. There you go, a FR for only 2 sets! Woooooo!
Worst Sets of the Night
That first set, the blowout.

Sticking Points
Not enough time to figure out that night.

Goals for Next Time
Be louder again.

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So as of lately I’ve been so busy that I hardly update my blog. But at least I’m busy with good things. Remember the mission I was supposed to do? Well due to some breaks (illness, school) and being infield, I noticed that every night I would focus too many things at the same time.

It would get me in my headspace too much. Like I would focus on 5 things at the same time so I wouldn’t be really in the moment. Also most of the mission don’t level with my skill level anymore. I’m slowly getting my mojo back so I have to adjust to that. The key to getting good fast is how fast you can adjust yourself. I know self diagnosis is tough but at least I have to prepare myself for it.

So I decided I’m skipping the missions for now. From now on I will just focus on very simple things and the core fundamentals. Examples:
1. Be louder. Stand 2 feet away from a set and project.
2. Touch on the opener
3. Open sets at an angle

That sort of stuff. Very basic stuff that I can focus on the whole night. When I feel like I’ve internalized it, then I move to the next piece. Not any earlier. I really need to internalize each thing first before I can move on.

Even though I know my skill level is a bit higher than I’m focusing on, I really want to have the fundamentals down. Like there must be absolutely no leak in my fundamentals. What are the fundamentals?

From Brad P:

Identity
practice approaches
real approaches
fashion
voice
body language
Social Anxiety
Approach Anxiety
Conversational repertoire

And in that order. Now let me go over each and give my opinion on what I think is good.

Identity – Good, but can need some work
practice approaches – Check
real approaches – Check
fashion – Check
voice – Needs work
body language – Needs work
Social Anxiety – Good, but can improve
Approach Anxiety – Good, but can improve
Conversational repertoire – Good, but can improve

Overall, my fundamentals are “alright”. But I want to nail each one of these before I move on. Hmmm….maybe I should join the 30/30 club. On the other hand, I want to take a bootcamp first and then go from there.

Alrighty, I’m going out tonight. Next post will probably a FR. My focus tonight? PROJECTING MY VOICE!!!

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State of Mind
After seeing Savoy speak and meeting the guys from CC, I was in a good mood to go out. I actually have this big test coming up, but the mood was set to go out. So I head out to Pasadena and my mindset is that I’m going solo tonight. I know some CC guys are coming but all I’m thinking is, I’m going to get this stuff done. My plan was to do some quick sets and then head home because I had to get up early the next day.

Goals of the Night
I didn’t really set a goal, I was too focused on going out solo and getting some sets done before I would leave. On the way to the first bar Neomeze I see some cuties waiting in line and I all flash them a grin of “yeah baby” and some of them smiled back. I should have approached, but I didn’t. Next time.

Random sets
So I get in and do my first walk around to get a vibe from the crowd. As I walk around I see Kurse in a 2set. I greet him and get rid of the obstacle so he can do his thing.

Kurse and I do some talking and he’s a cool dude. Definitely someone I can hangout with. We notice it’s all clickish around this place, but I didn’t care. I’m going to OWN this place. I go in and see some fatties with one cute girl with a nice rack. Lets call her HBCuban.

(while moving to the bar I stop them)
SS: Your hair is so fucking sexy [stroking and smelling it]
HBCuban: Awww thank you.
SS: I have a thing for girls with nice hair. It makes me want to get to know them better. Hi I’m SirSlick.

She gets to the bar and stands behind me. Her ugly friends try to hook me up with her and I tell her I’m not that easy. I move back so my ass touches my target’s ass while she’s ordering a drink. We shake our asses and do this for like 2 minutes.

They leave and I go on opening other sets. I see them again outside and this time I have Kurse wing me so I can mini isolate and do my thing.

SS: You have no idea what you’re doing to me……with that sexy hair
HB: What?
SS: With my ex-gf I would always stroke her hair like this. [stroke her and go cheek-to-cheek]
SS: (whisper and slow talk) Then I would talk dirty to her like how fucking sexy she looks

I check in with her and she’s biting her lips. CHECK.

SS: But the best part is when I stroke your hair like this and then pull it down

I then grab her hair by the roots, pull it so she looks upwards, and then I suck her neck. She loved it and didn’t walk away. Nice… :)

Now I should have pushed it by moving her and then escalating more. I did this in front of her friends and they didn’t intervene, I should have moved her to some other spot and get it on. Then out of nowhere I mess up by trying to run a sexual frame where she would be hitting on me and she mentions her BF. I flinch and BAM, set is gone.

DO NOT EVER FLINCH!!!

Best Sets of the Night

Next set at the bar, I actually open this asian girl because I saw her cuter friend order a drink. Handling interrupts is one of my bigger SP, I lose so many sets because of interrupts. But this I handled it well by engaging her with my story more than the girl I opened. It worked and I peaked her interest. Right away she starts testing me and I tell her that I’m a jackass, I pass the tests.

There’s heavy traffic so I move the girls 1 foot. Nice. Then I try to move them few feet and they do. Nice. I’m getting better at moving sets.

Lately I’m trying to bounce girls out of venues, that’s really what I’m working on right now. Bouncing. Something I realized is that you have to get compliance first by moving them within the venue. If they don’t move with you within the place, then they definitely won’t bounce with you.

So I run the set and try to figure out the logistics. They came together, big problem. I’m thinking of getting a # and making it solid. They leave for the bathroom and I talk with handle007 what to do. He wants to do other sets, which is fair, but I didn’t #close my target yet.

I’m telling him that I want to do a jealousy plotline. So we land in this 2set and I see my target coming back and standing right behind me. Nice. I stay for another minute just to get my girl to laugh to make my target jealous and I turn around and re-engage my target. She was jealousy by her look and attraction was spiked. Nice, good JP.

Going further in was really easy after that and I got the #. I programmed myself in her phone as “overconfident SirSlick” and I stay for another 5 minutes. Again I try to bounce them to another bar but they won’t. I knew something was off. Then I run the marriage roleplay and it kind of backfired. It was uncalibrated and that ruined my set. Shouldn’t have done it. Instead I should have done Fuck Marry Kill to move her around the venue and then bounce. Next time.

Worst Sets of the Night
Some blonde MILF who was just polite. Some other blowouts by even threatening that their BF was big and would kick my ass. Nice :)

Sticking Points
Moving girls and then bouncing them.

Goals for Next Time
Parade the venue with Fuck Marry Kill.

Average night. Did maybe 7/8 sets. But it was good again to run a long set to exercise my brain :)

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