Text Game Breakdown – Part II
So right now it’s just all attraction and attraction. Now my idea is to also build a bit of comfort by interspersing it with some regular “AFC” texts to keep it normal. Now my transition was really bad, but it did it’s job. Urgghh…still bad when I read this :)
(2 hours later)
Me: Hehehe respect. What have you been up to lately?
Her: Just got out from body scrub & oil massage :D treat for myself <3 it's good. U should try it :P
Me: Ooooh nice. You can do it on me sometime. All my 7 wives can't do that so I could use a 8th wife who can rub my back ;)
Her: Too bad that I don't do it by myself. I'll introduce u the place I go in ktown, ok? ;)
Me: It better not be a happy ending place
Her: Haha u r funny
She's not complying and I think it's due to the 2 hours that passed. I was hoping she said that she would rub my back, but instead she gives me a recommendation. Not necessary a bad thing, but not what I was shooting for. But she still likes the texting so I can proceed.
Again, after some "comfort" (for lack of better word) I go back into attraction again to keep it up. Again super obvious and just being funny. My definition of comfort in the context of text game is that she has some glimpse of my life. So it can be just one line where I said that I just came back class or whatever. Anything where she will find out more about me and is not "gamey".
Next day
Me: I just made you look at your phone for no reason...looks like I got you in check =]
Her: Believe or not i do more stuff w/o any reason lol so this doesn't bother me at all ;)
Me: You're such a goofball. What are you plans this week. I have something exciting going on, but only for cool people.
Her: Im kinda busy this week....is next week ok for u?
Me: That works. Please leave your tears and drama at home ok? :)
Her: Big girls don't cry ok? Haha when do wanna go next week?
Me: Hehe. Thursday works for me.
Her: Ok
Again I re-initiate with something funny and start building momentum, because I was planning to take her out. I don't text out of nowhere "what are you doing next week?" but first something else and then slowly into the interaction I'll find out what her schedule is like. So I ask her that and basicly ask her out. Now the last part is important of "but only for cool people". It's there to soften the blow if she doesn't want to go, and I totally stole the idea from dahunter in his distractor post on TAF. I don't ask it in a yes/no question to avoid any awkwardness. I already called her a goofball and if she can't go out, she can banter back out it and subtexting that she can't go. But in this case she just straight up says she can't go. But she is the one who wants to set a date, so it's probably legit that she is busy, and is still interested.
3 days later
Me: If grannies keep driving dangerously on the roads I might have to intervene some day! How's your day?
Her: Midterms & papers are killing me :S How's your day?
Me: Poor little girl. My day is awesome. Just got myself a nice home made pad Thai cooked by moi *so proud*
Her: Wow u cook? Impressive :) I wanna learn how to cook thai food too >.<
Me: You can’t cook? That’s it…I’m filing for divorce. I’ll keep the money and house, you keep the 6 kids.
Her: I cook but I dont cook thai food :( dont forget to pay the reparation lol
Me: Oh you CAN cook. I like that :) Forget about the divorce then. Lets trade services. You cook me sushi, I’ll eat your food. Fair? :)
Her: Im filing for divorce! Japanese dont cook sushi at home!
Basicly I re-initiate contact with something funny and random thing. I set it up knowing that I will throw in a cooking / divorcing roleplay. Something Braddock taught me: “ask the questions you want to answer.” Ever since I’ve adopted that, I always have things to say in set or know a few steps ahead what my moves are in any situation. Pretty money. The rest is standard role playing. Did I tell you I like role playing?
Also, my day is always cooler than hers. I’m always cooler than her. I like keeping that mindset and interactions that way, where I’m always cooler than the girl.
At this point I did overkill the whole roleplaying. Like way too much. But still she is playing along, so I guess I’ll just keep pushing it.
4 days later
This is a text routine I’ve been using a lot lately and has always worked great. I call it the “call the occupation” routine, where I basicly pretend to be calling her at her job and talking to her. This girl works for an insurance company, so pretend to talk to her with some callback humor about my butt.
Me: *ring ring* Hi I’m [name] and I would like to talk to an insurance representative for my butt.
Her: Please choose the option: 1 payment. 2 claim. 3 customer service.
Me: *pressed 3*
Her: How can I help you?
Me: I think I have a date with a crazy Japanese girl this Thursday and I want to precaution my butt against any spanking. Should I add accident coverage?
Her: U need to add accidental coverage and I would recommend u to add towing coverage with covers the ambulance expense
Me: That’s going to be an expensive date. Could you look up her records for me? Her name is [name]. Description: pretty face, slim and sexy body, and a huge nerd.
Her: Hesitate to tell u but….U need to be really careful. She is on the blacklist.
Me: Hmmm….I’ll take my chance. She might be worth it. Thanks for the customer support. Bye.
So this routine is pretending you calling her on the job and talking about the girl in 3rd person. Also I gave her a compliment. I usually don’t do that, especially not physically, but I gave it a shot. I’m not sure what her response means to it, but she keeps playing along that she will hurt the innocent virgin. I’m also letting her know that she hasn’t completely won me over with that last sentence.
Day of the date
Me: Hey are we still on for tonight?
Her: Yes 9 rite?
Me: Yeah. See you then.
Couple hours later
Her: Im leaving my place now.
And so we went on a date. Basicly on the day of the date I always text to see if the date is still on. If she’s gonna flake, might as well find out early so I can make new plans.
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