12 Weeks of Glory Journal – Day #1
So last night was the first time I met up with two of three guys of my 12 Weeks of Glory program. I had made a 2-page handout for the night with some writing exercises, infield missions, openers, and resources. We met up at a diner and just got to know each other.
I wanted a group of guys who were hungry and were successful in other areas of their life. These guys usually do the best from my bootcamp experiences. So we did the writing exercises where the first one was what they wanted to get out of this program. I did this because I wanted to see what kind of realistic or unrealistic goals they were setting for themselves. Goal setting, in my opinion, is really important if you want to learn a skill and can contribute to better inner game. Every time you hit a goal you’ve worked for, you get a rush of peptides that will make you feel good. Do this plenty of times and you will feel a lot more confident. That’s why I like having mini goals when you go out, even when they are really simple. That is also why I included the infield missions for the guys to hit. This time was pretty easy, but some in the future will be a lot harder.
The first night was really just getting a feel for where everyone is. One guy did really well; he could approach and keep talking. The other guy still has some approach anxiety, and that is okay. I expect to have guys to have approach anxiety and my goal is to squash that as soon as possible.
The first 3 or 4 weeks will all be about approaching and transitioning. I really want to hammer this process down because that in itself will give you an edge over 90% of the guys. Most guys don’t have the balls to approach a beautiful woman. If you have a good approach then the rest of the pickup will be a lot easier. Also there is a lot to cover for the first 10 seconds; facial expressions, body language and positioning, openers, touching, eye contact, just to name a few.
What’s funny though was me doing demos. The last couple of months I barely have done any approaches. Maybe 25 in the last 2 months? And most of the 25 are part of a recent bootcamp too. So I was a bit rusty when I had to approach. It was not that bad but I had to think while I was in set which I haven’t done in awhile. That felt kind of weird. I also noticed I immediately started with fascination and comfort game. Why? I guess I’ve spent too much time in strip clubs! Although that did pay off because I fucked a stripper in 20 minutes (for the LR see the Love Systems Lounge). But I have also spent a lot of time in social circle settings where you don’t have to game like you do in cold approach. I’m glad I didn’t fumble or anything but I definitely want to get back on doing cold approaches again. Especially since I’ll have to do demos I need to be on my A-game. Alrighty, back to going out doing cold approach again! No more strip clubs for a while.
BTW the guys did great infield. Can’t wait to see them again and kick some ass in the field.
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