Think long-term. Build a lifestyle.
This is something that has been on my mind for a while. I like to see “game” as a lifestyle where beautiful women are naturally attracted to. Not just being able to pull a girl every night you can, but where you live a life where you are really happy (health, wealth, relationships).
Sometimes I think people are too caught up with going out every night and trying to improve their skillset. I do think it’s the fastest way to improve your dating life by going out a lot and practice. You will get kisses, phone numbers, lays, and so on. I understand some people want to take care of this part of their life as soon as possible by doing it within a certain amount of time. Once that’s taken care of, other areas of life will be taken care of.
Take for example school. You are a student with good grades. You discover the seduction community and you start going out a lot, like 4/week. Your grades go down, but at least you improve your dating life bit by bit. Is it worth it? Depends of course per person. I personally would rather have a lower GPA and have a cool life, than have a 4.0 with a shitty life. But if you can have a 4.0 and a cool life, that’s even better.
What I’m trying to say is try to balance everything. If you are a 4.0 student, but your dating life sucks, then try to keep that 4.0. But gradually start to incorporating ways you can improve your dating life WHILE keeping that 4.0. I still regret the times where I dropped responsibilities for going out. My grades went down a bit, I lost clients, and friends because I wanted to improve my success with women. Some might say that you have to sacrifice certain things to achieve a goal. I now realize that you can improve your success with women while maintaining the success you have in other areas and without losing other responsibilities. Now I don’t kick myself anymore for doing other things than going out to practice game. This doesn’t mean that you should stop going out or use this as an excuse for not going out.
If you are doing something that will help you in anyway, please by all means do it. Jacking off or staying at home doing nothing does not count. But if you have a project due within a short amount of time and you will be working on it instead of going out, that counts. Again, there has to be a balance for this. If you keep doing this for 4 weeks straight with zero approaches, then you are just making excuses for yourself not to go out.
Learning game is like a marathon, not a sprint. You will have plenty of time to improve your life and it does not have to happen within a certain amount of time. Put in the effort and success will come.
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