FR: Back 2 Back 2 Back Strip Clubs
So I’ve decided to go out 5 days/week from now on. Two nights for stripper game (Tue+Wed) and Thu, Fri, and Sat for either night game, social circle game, or day game. But this week I’m going out 6 days and 3 of them have been to strip clubs. Past weekend I helped out at bootcamp which is pretty exhausting, but no pain no gain. So I gotta go out. Plus a bootcamp always gives me emotional momentum and extra will power (thank you frontal cortex) to go the extra mile to become better at game.
These past 3 days have all been to strip clubs. Every time I go to a strip club I try to work on a different technique; qualification is what I’m working on right now. Even though I felt like I wasn’t really on (fatigue) results wise it was pretty good. 2 solid #closes and one iffy #close.
6/22
Nobody wanted to go out so I decided to hangout with one of my stripper FB at work (this is the BORING one I wrote about). I get in and she wants to hang out with me on a couch. This club has several couches which are really comfy.
I just laid down and she laid next to me for ~3 hours. We would kiss (out of sight of the management) once a while. In my LR I wrote how boring she was, but I actually got to know her a lot better at the strip club. Funny how that works. She is less boring now over the couple times I’ve been with her. Still boring sometimes, but it’s manageable :)
Once a while when a guy came in I would dismiss her to make money and call her back when she was done. While she was gone I would pull out my phone, text and email, and do random surfing or I would talk to another stripper. The management has no problem guys pulling out their phones, which is nice for a change. I felt like I was at a friend’s place hanging out and waiting.
The point was that having my stripper there all cuddly gave me “insider” status inside the club. No other stripper would try to get a dance from me. One stripper tried to get a dance but once I told her I was with my stripper, she immediately started apologizing herself and be normal. She would then just kill time with me and tell me all this insider stuff.
All strippers wanted to hangout with me and just shoot the shit when they’re not groping up guys. It was really easy just talking to them. Almost too easy. I would break down their stripper game and give them some tips for making money. My girl confirmed (who I gave some tips before) told them that it was true and she made some more money. I couldn’t get a better endorsement than that and I was “in.”
One thing that was really interesting was to see how these girls thin slice guys. As me and three girls were laying on the couch, every guy that came in got some comment. So how you dress and carry yourself is really huge.
It’s too bad my girl is not bi-curious. I #closed one girl there to hangout with my girl for social circle gaming. I’m not planning to fuck this girl, but to genuinely make her my friend and pick her brain on how strippers and strip clubs work. She will also be my second gatekeeper to other girls in the club. Especially for new girls coming in. I like the prospect of this.
This club is my new little social circle. Is this my classy or slutty tree? Hmmm…. ;)
6/23
Me and mambotango hangout at a bar before we head over to the strip club. We go over the game plan but I tell I’m way too tired. We get in and separate so we get more approaches. I’ve never been to this club but it’s full with 9s and 10s. I like it. But the first two girls that came up were all business. It thought it was gonna be a rough night so I came to sit next to mambotango. We shoot the shit for a bit till we both got approached and seated a stripper. I was talking to a hot blond, he was talking to a hot brunette. Game time.
My girl: fit, white, DD, plaid pink mini skirt, and an ass to die for. Vida Guerra would have been jealous. She also had piercings on her dimples. Hot.
I immediately hook my stripper by disqualifying myself hard. The whole time I was in my head. I was too tired to really do anything so my interaction fazed as it went on. Continually I was thinking…what should I say next. But for some reason she kept listening to me. At some point, like 10-15 min or so, she asked me what kind of girls I like.
I was really thinking about this question. My fatigue fucked me over that I had to think about these sort of tests. Was I still in attraction? Or can I show my hand in comfort? Normally I can feel this, but this time I was literally thinking in front of her. Funny when I look back at it. Can’t remember what I said, but I know it didn’t kill the interaction. So it was good (enough).
I tell her why I like dating strippers. She tells me more insider knowledge. I get her real name (good waypoint). She is qualifying herself like mad but my qualification game on her was really poor. Poor.
I do strawberries field but I never continue pushing the sexual frames. She keeps hinting I should see her past closing time. I totally agree.
About 45-50 min I decide to go for the #. It’s about 12:30 and I’m about to fall asleep. One of the first thing I noticed how strict the security at this place is. Like…really tight; I was observing from the moment I walked how many security people were there. This makes #closing very difficult because strippers usually can’t be seen to give out their number. They can give it (technically) but not be seen giving them out.
So I tell her to save my number. She saves it under my name and as she was about to call me a security dude walks near us. I’m fucked. She tells me she would call or text me after she leaves the club.
At that moment what I should have done was get a dance and #close her in the booth. I’ve done it before. I still don’t know why I didn’t do that. Fucking stupid!
My timebridge for meeting outside the club was really weak. I drop off mambotango and head home. It’s about 1:15am now. Last time I lost a lay when a girl called me after the strip club and I was asleep. I didn’t want that to happen again. Also, you want to close it while it’s hot. An old sales principles that applies to pickup. So I actually waited for her to call/text me till 2.30. So the workaholic I was I got some work done. Nothing happened at 2.30 so I went to bed. In the morning, also nothing. Too bad. It felt weird knowing I didn’t have any control over the situation. I had to wait for her action.
I should have stayed till closing time and bounced her. But since I was so tired I wasn’t sure if I could game her that long. In the end, I might have made the wrong choice. Live and learn.
6/24
Me and mambotango head out to a new venue. I’m excited to visit new strip clubs….waiting for new talent like the night before. We get in and this club is really sneaky laid out. It has a bar with two poles with a stripper and then near the stage are only seats. Plus the speakers are around the stage and loud. Pretty tough environment. I only get one approach and she was all business.
We leave after we see all the other dudes snagged the girls. There were more dudes than girls so that worked against us. We bounce to the next venue and get there around 12:45am. They close at 2 so it’s perfect for some stripper game on steroids.
We sit next to each other and just wait. I get two approaches but they went nowhere. The third one hooks. This half German/Filippino, C cup, black dyed hair, fit girl sits next to me. She is immediately friendly and my auto response is: “You’re so bubbly. That’s nice for a change,” and then stack with looking disinterested.
I noticed lately I’ve been using a lot of push/pull in set. I verbally disqualify myself hard in the beginning and then just mix intrigue and state attraction sprinkled with some teasing. Mambotango has been analyzing my game all he saw making me girls laugh a lot. But it was more sprinkled. It’s more like normal convo, push/pull, normal convo, normal convo, push/pull, normal convo. But my normal convo is not BORING; it’s full of DHVs and bait. I don’t think of in terms of attraction switches but interesting stuff that pertains to my life and giving her enough bait to build commonalities.
I turn off her stripper mode and off we go into rapport. Since we both grew up in Europe, I could build wide rapport on range of subtopics. It was also a way for me to build a bit of a conspiracy; two Europeans living in the US and making fun of them.
Since I knew the club could close any minute I had to think way in advanced what the next steps were. I run some heartmelter, tell her why she’s awesome besides her looks (this girl actually has brains), tell her I met her for a specific reason, and then seed an event. Seeding several events is a great way to gauge how the stripper is down to see you again, but I was under time constraint so I had to crack it fast.
I tell her I want to take her out and we should exchange numbers. We pull out phones with our bodies close to each other to hide it bit. She saves my name and # and calls me. Gotcha. She immediately leaves; “Call me sometime. I’ve got to go back make some quick money.” And we parted ways.
I should have gotten the logistics before the number, totally forgot about that. What days does she work? What nights is she free? etc. Based on that info timebridge and #close. Next time.
I texted her half an hour later to see if she was down for an adventure but she responded to me back the this morning. Gotta close this one asap!
I think I’ve should have tried to go for the bounce since we were nearing closing time. But she left abruptly (partly I think because she was afraid the management saw us with our phones) which fucked it up. Also my car was back in Pasadena and they can’t have cars past 2am or they will get towed. Oh well.
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Going to strip clubs 3 days in a row really showed me a lot. I said to myself that once I can #close pretty consistently I’m going to try to bounce girls. For that to work I would have to go way later, like 1-1.5hr before closing time to give myself enough to get some approaches and one set to run. I’m going to try that around August I think. I still want to iron out some chinks I have.
What I’ve noticed though is that as soon strippers talk to me for longer than 5 minutes, they know they’re not getting a dance from me. Little things like “I’ll be right back, I’m going to make some money”, ignoring 2for1 specials, and not asking me for a dance ever made me realize that. Even when they leave and come back, they never ask for the dance. I think it’s because of the disqualification and preselection of dating strippers before.
Practicing stripper game is a good complement to your game. I think everyone should try it for a while. I remember the first couple of times where I could barely run my mouth for 10 minutes and was nervous as fuck around some girl in fishnets. Now I feel like I’m in my bedroom with some lights, music and half naked ladies that want something from me and I can just talk to them for hours if I wanted. I wonder how long I can keep this stripper infatuation going on. I’m an addict. Urgh. Or not ;)
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