Social Pancake – Blooming for Success

Mambotango and I went to 3rd st Promenade yesterday to do some day game. It was a bad idea for me to go out. I was sick as a dog, coughing and sneezing every 5 minutes, but I promised him we’d go. Today I’m even worse off lol, it was bad idea to go out in the bloody sun. Oh well.

We did some damage on the streets but I wanted to focus on the hooters girl. We went to Hooters so I could show him how I do hired guns. It’s something I’ve been working on the last couple weeks. Stripper game I have pretty much handled now (although I want to find out how I can pull them the same night) but now I want to focus on girls who work in stores and waitresses. Once I have these girls on lock down, my next focus will be bartenders.

So my approach with waitresses is to immediately show that we are the “cool” guys. We sit down and our waitress comes over.

She is of course very friendly and all smiling. Instead of going with the flow, I want to go against the current (breaking rapport).

Her: Welcome to Hooters…blablabla….very friendly talk…
Me: (very friendly tone) Hi how is it going?
Her: blablabla
Me: (breaking tone) Can I talk to the manager?
Her: Sure, he’s right there.
Me: We want another waitress….ours is not smiling (pop out a big smile)

This works only of course when the girl is really friendly, almost to the point of super fake friendly, so I point out the opposite. Pointing out the opposite is something I do a lot. If she’s asian, I accuse of being black. If she’s super friendly, I accuse her of being grumpy. You get the idea.

Delivery is pretty key here. With bad delivery you just look stupid :)
Normally when I say “Can I talk to the manager” the girls get usually a bit offensive and say “why?”
It kinda threw me off when she said that he was right there, but I recovered well.

The reason I say that, or something with the same idea, is to get an emotional response as soon as possible. The worst case is to get indifference, like we just another customer. Any emotional response is better than indifference, because at least we have something to work with. You can always turn a bad response into something that reflects attraction. Indifference is when she is just “yeah, euhm ok, cool…” etc. So I want to test the waters as soon as I can with these girls. If she is indifferent, I’ll literally ask for another waitress hoping she is in a mode to be picked up.

So she laughs and I then I just act normal by ordering my drink. As she is leaving I ask her if they have the fried pig with an apple in his mouth on the menu. She says no and I accuse her of bad service with a big smile on my face.

She comes back with our drinks and then I again pop out something state based. When she walking towards our table, I made it really obvious as we were shit talking about her.
So I kept my hand to my mouth, leaned towards mambotango as if I’m about to tell him a secret, and said in loud way “oh no, here she comes!” so she could hear it, and then act normal.

She of course wanted to know what I said and I then accused her being snoopy. Then I saw she had an unique name and I motion her to sit down with us.

This is key to build some quick rapport. I already know I have maybe 2-3 minutes max with this girl, so I need to show her a normal side of me. I inquire about her name and apparently it meant “faith” in another language. She tells this long story about this and I show respect for it first. Then I break rapport by saying to mambotango: “Is she trying to impress us? Did it work for you?”
Basicly saying she is hitting on us.

What I usually like to say in that case is “yes I’m single.” Always gets a great response. Whenever a girl tells a long story, I show respect by smiling and nodding my head. Then I interrupt her later by saying “yes I’m single.” Again, setting the frame she is hitting on me. I could have done it in the above scenario too, but I wanted to try that above line. Seemed to work, gotta field test it more.

The key is calibrating teases with slight signs of interest. My teases sometimes can be really hard and on the edge (mambotango is 10x worse lol, he always is on the edge) so I calibrate that by always showing some sign of respect first and then a bit later on breaking rapport. That way you can don’t get the “mean” jerk or asshole feedback. The playful jerk or asshole feedback is usually what you want. Push/pull in essence.

Then I said something like “That’s really interesting.” Then I tell mambotango that I’m going to marry this girl. I do this ridiculous Vegas marriage where I at the end leave her broke in a casino.

Then I dismiss her by saying we need to some time to look over the menu. So I get the girl to sit down, build some quick rapport, spike her emotion and then dismiss her. I always want to her to leave on a high note.

We make our choices and she comes back. Also what is important is that I don’t want to set the precedence that I’m just the funny guy. So when she came back, I was just being normal and ordered my food. I’ll do this one of twice throughout the interaction.

She comes back with our food. I reel her in by doing an intrigue based routine. It was basicly a cold read on her being visual and creative. Well….apparently she was an artist. So that hit well. I inquire deeper about that and build a bit of rapport.

Mambotango then asked something about his food, it was missing something. I hold my hand on the side of my head to hide my eyes, in way I don’t want to be recognized by someone, and then say in way that I hope she won’t hear it (of course she does) : “oohhhh there goes her tip” and I look away. Then I immediately look at her all smiling so she knows it’s joke. Again, she leaves on a high note.

She comes back with some side for mambotango and we just act normal.

We finish our food and I know the next time she comes back, I’ll have her sit next to us and get another 2-3 minutes to do something. So she comes back and I can’t remember exactly what happened. We talked about something normal and then I transitioned into something state based. Basicly we got divorced and we were dealing with how to separate the properties. She leaves to get the check.

At this point I realized I didn’t give her a nickname yet. I want to use that for callback humor so I tell mambotango to initiate it since I calculated that he will be getting her number. Since I’ll be working and traveling the next couple of weeks I know I won’t have the time to work her. Even though I did all the work lol.

She comes back with the check. This is the time I know that he will have to get her number. He starts off by saying how if he was born a girl his name would have been Amber. He then asks what her name would have been if she was a boy. She doesn’t know so he names her Melvin.

Mambotango is gonna throw a poolparty so I basicly told her that and that she should come and bring her friends. I tell Mambotango to get her number and he #closes her. Since I’ll be gone for the next 2 weeks I hope he gets something done. Either he bangs her or some social circle. So mambotango, make daddy proud ;)

And then I realized I wrote way more than I wanted. Long post again.

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Yesterday I was helping out at a day game 1on1. Kisser is one of the day game masters we have and this guy is a beast! It was so awesome to see this guy infield and do his thing. He broke my reality of what is possible in the day time. I try to model Soul’s day game method and style because we are very similar personality-wise. It’s very laidback and chill whereas Kisser is high energy. Somehow he can pull it off consistently.

Usually in the day time you want to limit the touching escalation but Kisser showed me how you can escalate like you are in a club. It was amazing to see how he would escalate; romantically hugging a girl from behind, pulling their hair, and kissing. I’ve seen day time kisses (yes, on the lips) before but Kisser makes it look so smooth. He ran this 4set by himself, they gave him free pizza, and he kissed one of the girls in front of her friends. I was observing from a distance and was really impressed how this guy, who used to be an introverted computer geek, pull off crazy stuff like that.

Then he ran this 2set by himself and the girls were literally fighting who was going to get with him. Again he escalated on both girls; pulling their hair, body to body rubbing, romantically touching. The jealousy plotline was so good. Seriously sick. And the girls were on the clock too because they were supposed to be working.

Last time my day game reality was shattered was when I was hanging out with Soul, Kisser, and Keychain at the LA Day Game workshop. They showed me how you can use wings in the day time. At first I was really skeptical. Wings in the daytime? But then when Soul and I did some sets together….man that was so money. We did so many more sets and doing group sets in the daytime is not a pain in the ass anymore. It’s actually fun! Now that I’ve seen Kisser pull off his stuff, I want to learn how to do that. He really showed how you can do groups by yourself. So next time I’m going to do day game, I’m going to escalate like a mofo and push it.

New day game goals:
-Pulling girl’s hair (10x)
-Day time kisses (5x)
-First Same Day Lay (1x)

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It’s no secret I like practicing stripper game. Sunday I had a stripper come over and it was so good that I decided I wanted more. So Monday night I went out to another strip club trying to get myself another one! I typed this up so hopefully someone will get some benefit out of stripper game. There isn’t that much info on it so maybe this helps.

Megatron pussies out so it’s me and one guy I’m taking out a lot now. So we went to this strip club and got seated. The club was packed for a Monday night and I had the worst seat ever. My wing has the best seat and of course he got over 10 approaches. I had maybe 4-5 approaches because some non-moveable table was blocking me. Very frustrating. The location of where you sit is so key; it can make or break your night.

After warming up on some girls I really didn’t feel like it that night. I didn’t get the hottest girls approach me so I was just reluctant gaming the ones that did approach. There were so many hot girls in this place and I got stuck with the over stock girls. Then this hot girl approaches me and I fix my body language. I find out she’s half mexican half italian, C cup, black hair. Within 30 seconds I know I can #close this girl. When a stripper approaches me I throw out some stuff and I want to see how she responds. If she doesn’t laugh, I know the stripper is all business and I would be wasting my time gaming the girl. But if she responds laughing or plays along with me, I know I can #close if I play the cards right.

Same thing again; mustache opener and disqualifying myself by saying I’m a virgin with the whole backstory on it. She asks me what I do and I ground my identity. As I’m grounding she gets called on stage. FUCK. I think I’ve lost her. But then I try again to tip the stripper when she’s on stage in order to hint that she should come back. Yes, in fact, couple minutes later she does come back. This has worked on 2 strippers now. But I’ve only done this to strippers I really wanted to get and where I knew I had a chance. So I continue with gaming.

I have this new piece that I’ve been testing and it works really well. It’s basicly what abundance mentality is when it comes to dating; so I say stuff like that I don’t believe in “the one” and that your reality is basicly a little fish bowl that limits you the amount of “right” people you can meet. In it I add some deeper cold reads on how she knows a lot of guys but she has guys lingering around that she shouldn’t have in her life. That in itself transitions into the piece of “you are like the 6 people around you” and I go really deep really fast within a couple minutes.

I break the tension and I’m off into showing that I know her world and that I’ve dated strippers before. This goes on for like 10 minutes. I’ve been working on this part of stripper game for a long time, at least 5-6 strip club visits. Now it’s pretty good. Then I’m into qualification and I try to bait her first by doing some third person framing. So I say stuff like “I can’t stand flaky people” and I want to see if she qualifies herself on the bait. If she does, I know I’m doing well. I remember I was complimenting her on her energy and we talked a bit about the feeling of living in the moment. Gotta love Tolle stuff.

I had a waitress coming back a couple times and I used to hate them because they would fuck up my game. But now I’ve found the perfect answer: “Not yet” and then keep on talking to the stripper.

So now I’m like 45-50 minutes in and she says she wants to see me again. I tell her okay, finish my story and then grab her number. I pull out my phone and tell her to punch it, but she refuses. She’s scared she might get caught because if they did it would be considered prostitution and we would get in trouble. Then she grabs her phone in her purse and I tell her to call me. Lucky me….her phone dies when she’s taking my number.

So I tell her that we should go in the booth and swap numbers there. What’s good was that all this didn’t put her back into stripper mode so I knew she was really into me. So I ended paying $20 to #close this girl, but I got also 3 lap dances. Good deal!

We get out and I continue talking to her. Then I’m teaching her stripper game. Well…sort of. I basicly tell her how my ex-gf would approach guys and cash out. This was mostly bullshit stuff because I just told the reverse engineered stuff strippers did to me to get a lap dance. But it’s a new routine now I want to field test more because it gives me a lot of threads I can branch off into. So I talked a lot about psychology and sales, how they work together, push-pull, attraction….basicly a lot of pickup stuff. The fun part was when I told her all that stuff and I commanded her to try it on a customer. So she did and on the first guy she convinced him to get a lap dance. She would come back later and I would give her feedback. LOL. It felt like it was a bootcamp hahaha.

I bought her a drink and she gave me some insider info. Basicly the bar will charge you double if you buy the stripper a drink and strippers can never refuse an offer. But if you buy it for yourself, they charge you regular price (and then of course you can hand off the drink to your stripper). I didn’t know this so I thought that was very interesting.

It was so on and we both had a really good time that I didn’t feel like texting her the same night. The next day I texted her. She called me back and we’ll meet up later this week. She’s here only for a few days to work at this one strip club location before she goes back a couple hours up north. So I’ve got to close this soon.

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I don’t think I’ve ever met a girl before who was REALLY boring. I really had to force myself to close this girl because she was just boring and not really hitting my attraction switches. Well not completely true; her body is a divine that needed to be explored. I just needed to overcome some hurdles and mentally force myself to do it.

So Thursday night me and my buddy, who I haven’t seen in a while, want to hangout at a strip club. I buy him his first lap dance ever and we were just genuinely hanging out. Normally I’m in strip joints to game but that night it was really secondary.

At some point I’ve talked to some strippers and then this one asian stripper joins us. 5′7, dyed brown hair, ivory and smooth skin. 20yo. Very nice. I bridge into the mustache opener to take over the conversation but she had to go up on stage when I was about to transition into another piece. At this point I thought I lost her. Since I didn’t see other strippers I was interested in, I thought, let me break the cardinal rule and try to get her back by spending some money. So I go sit on perv row and ended up tipping her $5. I go back to my seat. Few minutes later, low and behold, she comes back. It worked! Sometimes breaking the rules, the ones I learned at the strippers and hired guns seminar, are meant to be broken. Of course everything is the 95% rule. I guess that time the 5% worked. (For those who don’t know me, I’m a really dogmatic person so I rarely “break” the rules.)

When she came back, I got into the old routine stack I’ve been using on strippers. Every night my calibration towards strippers is getting better. At this point I need to work on my qualification game on strippers, but I didn’t prepare anything for that night. So I just tried to recall what I’ve learned. This girl is like no other stripper when it comes to spiritual and woo-woo stuff. We talked about signs and I saw on stage earlier that she had a Scorpio tattoo on her lower neck. I’m a Scorpio too so I told her how passionate I was and of course she could relate to that. Then she told me a really deep story on why the sign is called Scorpio. Let me tell you, that story lasted like 10 minutes and it involved many gods, creatures, and adventures. Since I’m not really into that, I kind faked interest but rewarded her accordingly. Maybe I should have listened because it could be an awesome routine for myself :)

I run all the other mish mash like me telling her to turn off her stripper mode for a sec, anger vs passion, 28k days, and talking about my ex-gf strippers. With this girl I talked a lot throughout the interaction how I dated strippers and why I preferred dating them. She also taught me a lot insider info that I could add to my own arsenal to show I know the stripper world for future strippers, e.g. why they don’t wear glitter because it leaves a trail wives can find out.

About 45 minutes in I run the piece by Braddock where you say you’re a spiritual person and you believe that every person you meet is for special reason. Oh man. I’ve tried that piece several times before but this time I used way later in set. I used to run it about 25 min in but it didn’t hit. But this time it was like dynamite. I saw her facial expression change and she kept on talking how happy she was meeting me that night. Damn that shit is dangerous!

Immediately after that I went for the number. I seeded earlier with a private modeling party I was going too. She liked it earlier so when I went for the number I timebridged it. Now what’s interesting is that when I handed her my phone, she punched it in and called herself. But after that immediately she was back into her stripper mode and asked if I would buy her a dance later. I responded, “yeah of course….”. I’m still not sure why she asked me that. Another interesting thing is when I asked her “Under what name should I save it, [stripper name] or …..”. She basicly said she doesn’t give out her real name and every calls her by her stripper (=nick) name. Normally when a strippers tells me her real name that’s a good sign so it kind of threw me off at that moment.

Then I remember I was telling her a story on how I went to the US for the first time. I was six and my parents just had enough money to send me over by myself. I’ve tried to run this story several times but this time I rephrased some parts of it and it worked this time. So now I have my own heart melter, or warm+fuzzy comfort routine.

BTW, this girl didn’t talk that much at all. I had to do most of the talking and trying to throw out hoops barely worked. I tried stuff like “Tell me something interesting about yourself” or “What were you like in high school” and she gave me half ass answers. So I changed it up and started to force frame things. I remember at one moment I said something like (paraphrased) “You know what, I can tell you’re holding back something but I can sense it’s something interesting. It’s your vibe that’s giving it away. Behind that adorable face there is something and I’m going to dig it out and cherish it. I don’t know yet what it is, but I’m going to find out. You’re so mystique, I like that.” I came up with it on the fly, partly because she wasn’t talking much, but damn it hit big time.

So now I’ve been talking to her for about an hour and I tell her I wanted to go somewhere private with her. My view on this is me showing that I appreciate her time because I know she has to make money. Since we already agreed to see each other again and I got her number, I wasn’t worried on becoming one of her regulars. She tried to get us a private booth for a regular lap dance price but the manager wouldn’t let us. Damn. I can only imagine what would have happened if we did have one. It could have been deja vu. So we went to a booth where no one was there. She started taking her clothes off and dancing. At one point she spread her legs for me and I couldn’t resist it. I started playing with her clit with my hands and “accidently” slipped my fingers inside her. Damn she was tight. I took it out, spit on my fingers and put it back in. Then another stripper and customer walks in and do their thing. At that moment I pulled out and she continued with her routine. I wish they didn’t come in because I might have gone animalistic again and flopped my cock out. Oh well, these are all “IFs…..” After 4/5 songs I got up and told her I was gonna text her so we could meet up some time.

Me and my buddy leave the club. I tell him to hi5 me but he knew something was fishy so he didn’t. Haha, almost got him there. We get some food and I text my stripper: “Hey sweetie text me when you get home safe. -[my name]” and a few minutes later she responded with some long text. Nice.

The only thing I should have done more was establish things where I could use more callback humor.

Date
I did some texting with her the following days and she was the one who wanted to see me again. If The Don was right, dates with strippers are no problem. This time he was wrong LOL.

Sunday night she drives over to my place and the first thing I see is her bare belly. Sexy. But then I noticed she was wearing skinny jeans. FUCK. I forgot to tell her to wear a skirt. But in the back of my mind I was still confident I was going to close this girl. She was wearing her stripper shoes except they were white instead of clear :)

On the way to the bar I ask her what she does when she’s not stripping. She says she does volunteering work for Caltrans. At the moment I was impressed but I did my research later on. Apparantly people who have been convicted or have some sort of probation violation get assigned that sort of work. Later on the night it would make more sense. She also doesn’t go to school and I know she has been stripping for about 2 years now. This girl really has no life.

That becomes more obvious as the night went on. We went to my favorite bar and we had some drinks. She didn’t like 2 drinks she tried out. Great way to start a night. Then I did the question game on her and she asked me all those relationship questions. Since I’m not looking for one, I kind of had to dodge them a bit.

Then she would ask me about my dirty laundry. I think that was a test when I think about it later. Since she probably had a juvenile past she wanted to see if I was like that too. I basicly said something like that I never had to steal or do something bad because there was no need for it. Not sure if it was the right answer because at that moment I didn’t realize it was a test.

I sexualized the date a bit with me whispering in her ear and kissing her neck. At this point we haven’t kissed yet at all. The sexual stuff was more the actions and the undertone of it rather than the full frontal thing like kissing.

The only weird or awkward moments were whenever she had to take a smoke outside the bar. I don’t smoke so I just stood outside with her talking. It was kind of weird. I tried to make not a big deal out of it, but it just looked weird to me. I felt like we couldn’t share an experience because one smokes and the other doesn’t. So I just cracked some jokes to keep it light and do the deep stuff when I can touch and whisper in her ear inside the bar.

Still at the bar she is not talking much. I really had to do most of the talking and that was no fun. Every question was answered by a 5 year old. Again I just force framed the crap out of her. After we left the bar I just said to go back to my place and watch a movie. She agreed. Usually when I go back to my place, I can already sense or tell sex is likely going to happen. This girl, I seriously could not read.

But once we got in my room, it was actually really easy. There was no need for another drink or some other BS to get her into my bed. She just said “go lay there and take your pants off….” I was like, “yes mam.” Damn. She was good. This is my third stripper and hopefully many more to come. The Don is right. All strippers know how to please a guy and playing out your fantasy with these girls is awesome :)

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Last night I failed to pull off a SNL and I’m not sure yet what the exact cause is. So this post is really just to recollect my thoughts and trying to figure out what the deal is.

So one of my good friends is having a birthday party at a club. Really nice club, bottle service, a lot of new faces. Since he is the center of attention, I don’t want to make any bold moves within the social circle. After all, it’s his birthday and his social circle (my extended social circle).

There is one girl I’m interested in so I start talking to her. Since I knew she was with the birthday boy’s party, I can just work my in from that angle; “So are you with X’s party?” May seem really obvious, but the important thing is to establish a mutual friend. That way you’re already “in” on the inside track. I did this really early on the night.

Then later on in the night we were standing at the table and I start talking to her. Since it was really loud, there was no storytelling or anything complicated. So it was all short and sweet mixed with some silly touching and games. I did some hair pulling and teasing when I found out that she was from the mid west.

She then asks if I want to dance with her. This kind of caught me off guard but I couldn’t refuse. So we start dancing and we have intense eye contact. Sign #1 she is attracted. Before I couldn’t really tell because I wasn’t really paying attention. In a social circle I rely on patience, so I was not expecting much that night. Anyway, so we were dancing, bodies close to each other with some gazing. Our cheeks touch each other, she doesn’t flinch so I escalate to the makeout. It was short and I cut it off first: “That’s all you get…” Her look was something like “what are you talking about?” in a confusing way. It was weird. Few minutes later, we madeout again for a little bit. We dance a bit more, it gets boring, and she wanders off.

I don’t chase, so I wander off talking to other girls. Since there were a lot of single girls at the party, I started talking to some of them. One really hot girl stood out but she was on a date with a good friend of mine (I found out later) who was also there, so she was off limits. I just wanted to talk to as many girls as I can, even if it was very short. Just to get some face time and if I do see them again, I can reinitiate conversation with “Were you at X’s birthday party at club Y?” and establish that we have a mutual friend and get more sticky.

I then see the girl I madeout with again. Another guy at the birthday party starts talking to her and reading from her body language she was just being nice to him. They sit on the other end of the table, so I decided to run some jealousy plotlines. I was sitting on the other end and I bounced two girls to sit on both sides of me. I do some silly games and playful touching with these girls to make my target jealous. If a girl gets jealous, that’s an unpleasant way for her to find out she is attracted. Very powerful. She and the guy wander off getting drinks and I just keep having fun with these two girls.

Later I find my target again and I drag her off to the dancefloor. We makeout again and go back to table for some quick comfort building. I want to get her number and go from there. I was really in the mindset of slowburn game and not really thinking of taking her home that night. Since I know she’s in my extended social circle, I will have plenty of time to get with her. If I don’t see her again, oh well, it was a fun night either way. ABUNDANCE MENTALITY!!! I keep everyone entertained at the table and my target is off to the bathroom. I lose her the rest of the night and as everyone is leaving getting their car, I see her again waiting for her car to get pulled up.

I noticed that her buying temperature was way down. She was testing me a lot for some reason. I pass all of them and she starts to give me compliments. Haha so predictable, got to love female psychology. She is basicly giving me the green light so I get her number. Her car pulls up and says “get in the car….” with a serious demeanor. So I get in.

Now this is where I fucked up somewhere. I found out she lives like 30 min away on the west side, whereas I live 45 min away east side. My car was parked on the street so she drives me there. I say something like SS: Tonight was awesome, but I don’t want the night to end.
HB: Do you want to go to A bar?
SS: Sure, is there one near your place?
HB: No.
SS: We should go back to your place and have some drinks.
HB: No I have stuff to do tomorrow morning.
SS: Ok cool. You can drop me off here.

It was something like this. She forced me to get in her car which was really weird. I was totally not expecting that. Then I try to figure out the logistics. I didn’t want her to drive us both back to her place, because my car was still on the street and the last thing I wanted was to have it towed the next morning.

HB: Do you want to go to A bar?
SS: Sure, is there one near your place?

When she said that, she was down to do that. I respond and then she got cold. I’m pretty sure this was the turning point. FUCK! I wish I carpooled to the club. I failed big time last minute. For some reason, this always happens to me. When you least want to get laid, that’s when all the opportunities come your way.

Now there is a dilemma. She is in my extended social circle. I can either play it really slow and work it that way. Or I’m going to go full blown like it’s a girl I met through cold approach. I’m not sure yet what to do exactly. She is kind of far out of my circle, although we have like 3 mutual friends. So I’d probably be better off with slow burn game. I’ll text her and see how she responds. Based on that, I’ll see what happens. Either way, she is just ONE girl. I have other girls in the queue in my social circle, so I’m not to worried. ABUNDANCE BIATCH! It’s a great thing to have in your mind.

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Oooooooohhhh DAMNNNNNN. Saturday (Feb 7) was a fucking blast! I can’t remember when the last time it was when I had so much fun hanging out with cool people.

Friday night after work I pickup Keychain from LAX. He and Soul are in LA to do a day game workshop. Keychain was crashing at my place. The next morning, after maybe 4 hrs of sleep, we’re up and ready for the day game seminar. I’m still on the deprived-of-sleep-days for over a week now. We get there and I see three students and two of them were going to be in the field, with Soul, Keychain, and Kisser. I would tag along and help Soul with his infield portion.

There was a small break between the seminar and infield portion, so me, Soul, Kisser, and Keychain head to a Starbucks to have some lunch with Johnny Soporno. He sits there with his classic Hawaiian shirt and devil horns attached to his head. Classic. That guy kept on talking and he had some interesting points and views. After that we headed to an outdoor mall to do some day game! On the way, we carpooled and we were sharing some insane stories. There’s a reason why it’s hard to become a Love Systems instructor, because you really need to have the skills to back it up. But when I heard those crazy stories, I knew why each and one of them was an instructor. CRAZY STUFFFFFF.

So we got there. We would split up since we have 2 students, 3 instructors and an approach coach. Kisser and Keychain would take one student, and Soul and I would take the other student. I was super excited to be doing some infield damage with Soul, he’s fucking cool. Me and Soul start off with doing demos. For some reasons, my demos never suck. Not to brag or anything, but when I have to perform under pressure, I always do really well.

The student was very tough to work with. He always make excuses not to approach and sometimes physically moving him wouldn’t help either. He was definitely the hardest student I’ve worked with so far, but I was determined to make it work. After a couple of hours he still wasn’t having it so I decided to keep doing demos to motivate him and pull him into my sets. So I see two hot girls strolling down the street, I open them, pull the student in and pawn him off to the hottest girl. They are very receptive and out of nowhere he starts to get crazy! It’s starts to click! And he turned into an approach machine after that. Awesome. He got some solid numbers, so I was happy.

I’ve been practising my game lately a lot and really putting myself out there to improve that skill area. I wanted to show Soul my improvement since we last saw at the Super Conference in Oct 08, and he was impressed. But I was impressed with his day game skill. He’s the real deal. He would instant date and #close girls on a very consistent basis and he would break it down for me. He also gave me some pointers for my game and some advanced stuff he’s been working on.

Now Keychain and Kisser are off the chain too. I know this sounds bias and weird, but I saw these guys in action and they are really good. Like, really good. I was really impressed what they pulled off, but also teaching wise they are great. After the students were gone, we had some time to kill so we continued gaming. My biggest revelation that day was that winging in day game is AWESOME. AWESOME. AWESOME. Doing groups with your (competent) wing is so fucking easy and FUN. FUN. Dude, I had a fucking blast doing day game with these guys.

Then we go to Kisser’s place to hangout a bit and get some rest. We were going to the Grammy’s pre-party at Kress with the big boss Savoy. He had the hookup and on our way we catch him. We see some familiar faces of Venusian Arts, Mehow, and just regular puas. It was the club to be that night, so I understand why everyone was there. We really had a blast winging each other and just chilling. Good times. I HAD A FUCKING BLAST!!!!

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I haven’t written one of these things in a while. Too busy with school and work. Also I’m dating a girl right now that has kept me busy from going out. So I wake up at around 9am after going to bed around 2am for finishing up some work. Maui calls me and asks when I’m ready: “Dude I just woke up but I’ll be ready in an hour.” My week goes on sleeping on less than 7 hours each day. Urgh…..

So we start day gaming at 11am in the morning, after having some lunch at a nice Chinese restaurant. We walk around the parade area to look for the pageants of Chinatown. I see them but I was surprised to see them. They were just plain or pretty girls, not really hot or sexy. Don’t get me wrong, these girls were pretty. But just not that “hot”. But I guess that is the same for most pageant girls.

Then I see a reporter and she’s a 10. She’s doing some interviews and I wonder when the best time is to approach and then I lose her out of sight. Too bad. NOTE TO SELF: Pay attention. Then I approached a pageant girl and we talked in a group for about 5 minutes. But it wasn’t really ON and I spent majority of the time working the obstacles. Then I get that feeling of “it’s not that on and they are now just polite” so I just left. It could also be a miscalibration of my part but I’m not really a plower. Also I didn’t warm up that morning so I was a bit stiff starting off. Overall, that pageant and parade area wasn’t that successful. So we head out to the mall and get some real work done.

I let a lot of sets pass in the day time because I’m only looking for super hot girls to approach. So me and Maui decided to take turns pointing out girls for the other guy to approach. If he doesn’t approach, he owed $1 to the wing. That’s a great way to push each other to open sets. We’ve both paid $0 and I gave Maui some cool sets (mom&daughter, milfs, and so on) ;) (totally outside of his comfort zone)

I get some blowouts on the opening (I go direct). Some girls just looked at me and walked on. LOL. Then Maui points this single girl.

SS: Hi. I know this is very forward of me…but you are absolutely…gorgeous.

She blushes and we introduce each other. I do the usual querying on logistics and getting to know her a bit with cold reads. Basicly doing some reward and relate stuff. What I should have done was to test for compliance, like moving a bit and see how she responds. I didn’t do any of that so when I tried to go for the instant date she wouldn’t go. I didn’t test for compliance, didn’t build any momentum, and wasn’t selling it. It was on, but not that ON. Not good.

Next good set was a mom & daughter set in a shoe store. I said I noticed her and do the same opener on her. I wanted to field test the part of “this is very forward of me” and being that romantic guy who never does this ;)

SS: Hi [big smile]
HB: Hi.
SS: Hi…eurhm…I know this is very forward of me…but I just noticed you…and I think you…are absolutely…gorgeous. [... denote pauses]
HB: Oh thank you. What’s your name?
SS: I’m SS.
HB: I’m HB.
SS: How are you today?

Every time I ask her a question, I basicly try to gauge how receptive she is. In this case she was very receptive saying how she is taking her mom out for shopping. Her mom was a few feet away trying on shoes and she couldn’t really hear us, so this situation was a bit on the lower end of the pressure spectrum (meaning you can escalate and be more direct). I figured since the mom was there, a #close would be the best thing to get. I do the same ying yang, vibing, cold reads, reward&relate. Plenty of comfort game for about 10-15 minutes.

I test a bit for compliance by shifting my body language to see how she responds. I do something like a roll off and I see she is moving her body forward, so she’s good. I go for the #close and that was easy. As I’m about to head out, she asks me what nationality I am so she baits me back in again. This was also a sign that I didn’t do any grounding. Then I do some more grounding and we share childhood stories.

Then I notice her crossing her arms so she’s closing her BL. I knew something was off, but I can’t remember anymore what I’ve said. It was something on traveling. So about 15m after I left I sent her a text: “Hey HB, do you speak text? :) SS.” and no response yet. So I might have to plow over text.

Then another good set was when I was getting AIs. I came out the fitting room and I see two girls wearing the same outfit, pink tshirt and black pants. I look at both of them as I walk by and they both look at me smiling. I was like, “hmmm interesting.” I ask for Maui if he thinks if these girls are in high school. He says no. I still doubt. Then I see them shopping for guy clothes. I’m starting to get too much in my head. Then I decided to go.

SS: You look really dangerous with that belt in your hand.
HB1: Huh? What? [confused]
HB2: Hey I need your help.

At this point HB2 is trying to catch the attention of my target so I have to intervene.

SS: Hey, don’t you agree that you’re friend here is adorable.
HB2: Haha yes.
SS: I just saw her and she’s just too adorable. So I had to come over and meet her.

And HB2 is disarmed as she leaves us alone to get some vibing going on. I do the same pattern: cold reads, vibing, but this time I forgot logistics. What I should have done was get Maui in and let him game the other girl, and then try to bounce both girls out of the store for something. It just didn’t pop-up. We actually never game together 2sets, both of us do solo day game. I should have moved her around the store and then #close, but I just went straight to the phone number. As I #close, my phone is not working. Great. I reboot my phone and she’s still on. Good. As I get her number, in my mind I hear this voice “CALLBACK HUMOR”. This is still something I need to implement and seed in my day game interactions. So I immediatly tell her my name if I was born as a girl and I assign her a name because she didn’t know her boyname. I call her by her boyname and we part ways. That’s when I realized I could have done a lot more on logistics and bouncing. Oh well. I send her the same text and she’s warm. Good.

So I burned a lot of calories walking around. I got blown out a lot more than usual too, which was very weird. Not sure why. And then when I did get the girl to be receptive from the start, I didn’t fully do everything I could. Next couple of days I have do some more sets to prepare for the day game workshop. Today just reminded me that I still need to re-work my comfort game because I’ve been solely focusing on my attraction game last couple of weeks. Now I’m working on my qualification game which is getting pretty tight. Daddy is happy.

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After writing this, it turned out to be a mix or rant, observations, epiphanies, and such. LONG READ. WARNING!
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So yesterday I went out with some non-community friends. To be short, I had a great time. Going out with social circle is fun and also a great way to meet new people. Don’t get me wrong, I love doing cold approaches, but I’m getting to the point again where going to clubs with community friends is getting a bit bored. I’ll rant about that another time :)

So we first went to this club I’ve never been to. We get there after picking some people up and it turns out to be a “ghetto” club. Not really my scene, but I always to make the best out of it. We stay there for a bit and then head out to a high end club where it was asian night. Since the SC I was hanging out with were all asians, I guess the choice made sense. Plus I’ve never been to that club before on an asian night (only during the week few times). We got in with bottle service and made it pour!

Now normally I don’t like asian nights whenever I go out for practice, but this time I was hanging out with friends. I actually liked it. I met some cool people through social circles that I’m sure going to see again. If you get in the right social circle you’ll meet the right kind of people. Makes sense, right? Yes. But getting into a social circle is the hardest thing. Once you’re in, you’re in and money. But only get those social circles if you have “true” friends. My friend who has a really cool social circle is a great guy and we get along great. Then things just happen naturally as I meet his friends and he meets my friends. I’m sure at one point our social circle is going to merge (will take few years) but then we’ll have a powerhouse of valuable people.

But if you have to force a social circle to accept you and such; much harder. Just like you don’t have to get every girl, you don’t have to be friends with everyone. Once I understood this, my behavior and view on things gave me so many more opportunities. That way you also don’t have to force anything.

Ok I’m ranting. Back to the night. We shoot the shit over some vodka and I see some girls orbiting around our table. The thing with having a table is that it already that you have some money/status. So gaming with a table is so much easier. To prove it again to myself, I opened like 3 girls in proximity with a “adorable” and they wanted to join our table. Too easy and no fun, but I proved myself again what I knew. Now I can’t afford to buy bottle service every time I go out, but I do want to work towards a lifestyle where that is not a big deal.

Now also, since I was at this high end place, people who are in there already know you have some value. So opening is way easier. Girls know you already have some value, or else you wouldn’t be able to get in. So the initial phase of attracting is way easier. Whereas if you go to a regular club, any bum can get in. You don’t have any perceived value when you’re in that place, and you’ll get blown out more and faster. Another thing I’ve noticed is that when you’re at a high end place, girls worry about their social value in the place A LOT. Like if you come in and you lower their (perceived) social value, that’s like the worst case scenario for these girls. I’ve heard this from other people before and I have seen it before infield, but last night was another observation of it from my own sets and some naturals. Actually, one of my new friends I got introduced to is a natural. I need to hang out with these people more, because they have 1) game 2) don’t talk about game infield and 3) are COOL and FUN people to be around. Well at least, that’s the experience I have from a few naturals I know. They always have lots of fun and that is part of their game.

So then I couldn’t help to do approaches. First is this black girl who seriously looks like Gabrielle Union. Almost toooo similar…scary. Right now I’m working on basics: stated based attraction. Part of it is because I want to do plenty of stripper which requires good pumping state skills, another is that I suck at attraction. I’m more of a Mystery guy who uses intrigue and passive stuff as attraction. So I’ve been working on state based attraction lately. Last night was the same thing. Even though I didn’t think I was going to game, I always know what I’m working on. I take this part of my serious. If you would wake me up at 4am and interrogate me on my goals and missions, I could spit them out any second.

Anyway, the black girl was fun girl. I pumped her state through the roof and she started clapping her hands. Haha that’s when I knew I took it too far. But it was way early in the night and I got bored of her. I started telling her that “I’m going to start hitting on you all night long. So run away now while you can or bad things are going to happen to you…” sort of stuff. Every time I would escalate she would resist and after plowing a few times I left her. Plowing is not really my thing; I’m too lazy for that. It has it advantages and disadvantages. Would I say I’m a good “plower”? No. So I’ll add that to my todo list.

Then I got introduced to this asian girl through my other friends. I spanked her within 30 seconds because I could tell she was very open for that. I immediately set the precedence that she should run away or some more bad things were going to happen. Basicly, I spend maybe like 45 min with her. Wayyyy tooooo lonnggg. I was trying to pull her that night, but like after 30 min was when I was trying to figure out the logistics. Bad mistake. And logistics turned out to be bad. I carpooling and she was also.

Also, every time I start squeezing her ass or started rubbing it, she would spank me. BUT she would never leave me or get really mad. So to me that means it’s ON. Also I continually tried to makeout with her, but she resisted every time. Then the whole sucking neck and ear nibble thing got her hot, but she just wouldn’t make out. This girl is some weird breed.

Then she threw out some weird tests I never had before. Stuff like “you’re aren’t drunk enough”. In my mind I was like, “wtf is that supposed to mean?” but I ignored it and just kept escalating. Also I was way uncalibrated. For every escalation she said stuff like “there are so many other hot girls in here” or “I barely know you”. Now the first I think means she is insecure about herself or my perceived value is too high for her. The second is my lack of any comfort. Since I was way too focused on attraction and pumping state, of course I left out the comfort out of my game. But in this case I wanted to see how far I could go. But yeah I should have known that I should have toned it down. Also, she knows that we have mutual friends so it’s likely that we’ll see each other again. I’m not sure if that has anything to do with it, but I’ll take mental note of it.

Can’t remember that much anymore. The rest was blurry and just socializing with friends. Good times.

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